"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Refusal pisses them off.

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When I went out on Friday, I was speaking to a guy and he said: "Listen, you have to understand that this is [city name]. You've GOT to buy women drinks here."

This flies in the face of everything that I've learned on this board and other materials. So I went on a test. Four women literally said to me "Buy me a drink!". I just looked at them and said "No. Buy me one, and if I still like you, then I'll buy you one."

I could not believe how pissed off they seemed to get. Three gave me a dirty look, and the fourth tried

"Don't you know that a man should always buy a woman a drink when she asks for one?"

I replied "Do you buy a drink for anyone who asks for one? Why don't you buy me one?".

"Are you cheap, or what?"

"Do you only attract guys who are so pathetic that the only way they interest you is if they buy you drinks?"

"A-hole" and walks off.

Personally, I sort of enjoyed it. But I'd like to get your opinion on the matter. I was probably not totally charming in my delivery (how does one say such a thing in a charming way?)

Thoughts on the matter?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If a woman asks me to buy her a drink, I would respond with something like, "Whats in it for me?" After her response I can probably tell if she's a ***** or worth pursuing.
 
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well you were being an idiot about it which is why when they asked you for a drink, they got pissed. starting arguments is very unalpha and caring about what they say is also unalpha. you just acted like a little kid so they treated you like one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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