"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thundernuts

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Guys, I'm gonna be moving soon. I went out with this one girl a couple of times and things are going good, but she moved about 4 hours away so things went cold. Now, I'm gonna be moving about an hour from her.

She just texted me last night and then we talked on the phone for like 20 minutes. Can you guys give me a rundown on some of the rules for texting and what not.

I haven't been talking with any women lately, i wanna be sure I'm not gonna go back to my rookie days. Thanks in advance.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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