"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thundernuts

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Guys, I'm gonna be moving soon. I went out with this one girl a couple of times and things are going good, but she moved about 4 hours away so things went cold. Now, I'm gonna be moving about an hour from her.

She just texted me last night and then we talked on the phone for like 20 minutes. Can you guys give me a rundown on some of the rules for texting and what not.

I haven't been talking with any women lately, i wanna be sure I'm not gonna go back to my rookie days. Thanks in advance.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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