There is this girl i've been seeing who is very independent and seems to be elusive when it comes to a relationship. i asked for it once and she said shes not ready for one and just wants to date. i have kissed and slept with this girl many times and i told her i would keep pursuing her until she gives in and she smiles and laughs at it. i saw her sunday and we had sex, and then on monday we talked on the phone and i asked how she feels about me and shes like i care a lot for you, but not in love and i guess i kind of pushed the relationship idea. well i said i understand i see how u feel i think i need some space and she goes me too. well the past few days she'll text me once in a while but we havent talked on the phone lately... i want to know what i can do to make her appreciate having me around and how i can present a challenge. i know theres some things i've probably been doing wrong. any help is appreciated.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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