"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Reese Whitherspoon, how would you assess this woman?

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I know she's been described as an A-type personality, but what other things could you say about her (good or bad) that would give you a better grasp on how to work up this profile of a woman, because there are many others out there just like her (I know. I've dated and chased one recently about 1.8 years ago), just as there are many other woman out there just like any other woman out there. I've read where women are described as falling into one of four categories: Fire, Ice, Light, Earth. I've determined Reese to be that of Light, but look at her (divorcing over no real just cause for divorcing, just hearsay, this isn't very moralistic, but SELFISH, as most hollywood celebs are however).

I know you haven't met these celeb type women, but from observation, how would you gauge them, or go about (attacking) their psyche to wanta sleep with you. What would you have to do? We'll use a celeb to bring the focus of knowing who we're talking about (looks-wise, personality, mannerisms), do our homework, and devise a plan for each one. If it's Jessica Alba, so be it. Kiera Knightly (who I can't stand), so be it. At least we all pretty much know who they are and how to go about attracting these particular sophistos in the public eye that so many women idolize and want/try to be like, to get in their pants.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First of all. I find Reese Witherspoon repulsive. That god-awful chin.

Secondly, what do you mean "celeb-type"? Rich and popular?

a lot of guys might tell you to be a jerk to her but I personally don't think that is a very effective tactic. If you do want to be "cold" and mysterious then just show her that you are having a great time with or without her around. Then pull out the humour. You should be able to tell a good story and prove to her that you can entertain a group.
 
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The answer is to be the type of man who lives his own life, and attracts the right type of woman naturally, without trying to fit into her world.

The woman tries to fit into your world, not the other way around.

Not like that's easy, but I know it's the answer anyway.
 
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Her vanity is her key, same with any rich, famous, powerful, etc. people.

As far as Reese, I wouldn't go near her. Her Jay Leno chin might poke my eye out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would say to Reese that I would be willing to sleep with her, but she can keep her money, I'll do it for free!!
Seriously, is Reese your best friend or something? How do you possibly know so much about her that she is like women you are dating?
She seems like she has a good head on her shoulders and for whatever reason she divorced that's her business. What reason do you have to be judging her life and reasoning for being divorced?
Dude, I am only asking since now that Cameron dumped Justin, we can be together at last!
C'mon man, I don't want to be harsh but what planet are you on?
Read the DJ bible, and chase women you can handle.
 
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First of all. I find Reese Witherspoon repulsive. That god-awful chin.

Secondly, what do you mean "celeb-type"? Rich and popular?

a lot of guys might tell you to be a jerk to her but I personally don't think that is a very effective tactic. If you do want to be "cold" and mysterious then just show her that you are having a great time with or without her around. Then pull out the humour. You should be able to tell a good story and prove to her that you can entertain a group.
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I love it when guys say things like this: "Jessica Simpson is digusting: I can't stand blondes!!"

:rolleyes: Like you've ever had better?
 
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RAFCbearfilm said:
I would say to Reese that I would be willing to sleep with her, but she can keep her money, I'll do it for free!!
Seriously, is Reese your best friend or something? How do you possibly know so much about her that she is like women you are dating?
She seems like she has a good head on her shoulders and for whatever reason she divorced that's her business. What reason do you have to be judging her life and reasoning for being divorced?
Dude, I am only asking since now that Cameron dumped Justin, we can be together at last!
C'mon man, I don't want to be harsh but what planet are you on?
Read the DJ bible, and chase women you can handle.
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From what my own eyes see of Reese Witherspoon whenever I see her on TV, I would rate her a HB6, nothing special, I would never chase after he because of her looks, though if she wanted to put me up in her mansion and spend her money on me, she is attractive enough for me to enjoy fvcking her.
 
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Dude, I am only asking since now that Cameron dumped Justin, we can be together at last!
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Who? You and Justin?? :D I never was into Cameron, but since she darkened her hair, she kind of has that dirty girl look, which earns her a few points. That look that says I'll take it up the rear end then suck it clean.
 
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I would say to Reese that I would be willing to sleep with her, but she can keep her money, I'll do it for free!!
Seriously, is Reese your best friend or something? How do you possibly know so much about her that she is like women you are dating?
She seems like she has a good head on her shoulders and for whatever reason she divorced that's her business. What reason do you have to be judging her life and reasoning for being divorced?
Dude, I am only asking since now that Cameron dumped Justin, we can be together at last!
C'mon man, I don't want to be harsh but what planet are you on?
Read the DJ bible, and chase women you can handle.
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I agree that it IS hard to handle that type of woman, because I'm still trying to handle that type of woman, and it's tough, but that's what I want and like the most, we just fit together.

Another thing, women you don't want who want you and are regarded by other guys as "hot" but not by you fully, become revengeful when you finally reject them. I mean, they want to do harm to you, either financially, socially, or even physically. I would never lash out like that on a woman that I really want who rejects me, because I'll still love her because I'll know she's just hurting herself by rejecting me because I see so much of me in her that she would just be rejecting herself.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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L777,

sorry buddy but Reese just doesn't do it for me. and yes, I've had better many-a-time. Jessica Simpson is more attractive than witherspoon but still not my type. If we are talking celebs then Jessica Alba, Salma Hayek, Shannon Elizabeth etc...are what catch my eye. You know, "full-figured" gals. I know what you mean though.
 
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Reese does it for me, just that, she would be Very hard to maintain with her making about 30 million more than I do a year. How do you compete with that? I love a woman similar to Reese but she is dirt poor and relies on others for dough. I don't know how to explain my attraction to this type of woman. Maybe it's background, I don't know.
 
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I am totally lost here... Could you maybe write up a better question of what you are looking for? It sounds like you are after Reese Witherspoon, then it's a girl that looks like her only she's poor. WTF? If she looks like Reese she is not Reese, only Reese is Reese, your girl is completely different. If I were to guess at what is going on here, it's that you are attracted to women that remind you of famous chick's and you are going after them to somehow feel like you are part of that Hollywood elite.
Reset has it right.
(Conan, Justin is WAY hot, but I was talking about Cameron...my boy band days are behind me :)
 
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L777 said:
I love it when guys say things like this: "Jessica Simpson is digusting: I can't stand blondes!!"

:rolleyes: Like you've ever had better?
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Yes. Jessica Simpson is your typical manly toughy that is so common these days in places like America/UK/Canada. Her facial features would do better on a man. She is also divorced and is no spring chicken.
 
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ConantheLibertarian said:
Who? You and Justin?? :D I never was into Cameron, but since she darkened her hair, she kind of has that dirty girl look, which earns her a few points. That look that says I'll take it up the rear end then suck it clean.
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Dang, thats is disgusting.:down:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She's too old now.

Get with it.

Go after Adriana Lima. She's a 25 year old virgin after all... should be easy... :D
 
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