"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Redskins considering name change

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I don't support giving into mob demands because it just incentives them to keep throwing more tantrums.

But in this case it might actually be kinda cool cause Native tribes have some of the coolest names: Apache, Comanche, Lakota, Mohawk, Sioux, Cheyenne, Huron, Mojave.....
Apache would be badass
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What exactly is BS? A team no longer being named a racial slur?
Red wolves is in the running, which is dumb to make them red anything, because that is the slur itself.

I won't miss that idiotic tomahawk chop, either, the atlanta braves stole that from fsu. The cardinals have a relief pitcher of native American heritage who they did that to last season, a new cultural low point for baseball.
 

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Red wolves is in the running, which is dumb to make them red anything, because that is the slur itself.
I thought the skin was the slur. People get very offended about skin.
 

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I thought the skin was the slur. People get very offended about skin.
From what I read, the first documented use of the word was on bounties advertised on native americans. The "red skin" was the scalp turned in to receive the bounty.

Washington Swamp Rats?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The rest of the world is laughing at Americans even more...

You can make any word offensive these days. You're never going to please everyone unfortunately.

I really wish we could go back to the "sticks and stones may break my bones but names can't hurt me" society. Everyone was more calm back then and people knew how to ignore words and fist fights solved a lot of things too. Now you got butt hurt weaklings threatening lawsuits as their only strength because they aren't real men and can't fight, coinciding with how woman do things. Bring back the 'say it to my face and duke it out days. Only baby boomers and Gen X will probably remember those days.

As far as this specifically, changing names is just a political and PR move. If government really wanted to do something for the Native Americans, forget name changes and just give them back more land. I'm sure they would much rather have that. My $.02
 

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From what I read, the first documented use of the word was on bounties advertised on native americans. The "red skin" was the scalp turned in to receive the bounty.
I had heard it originated with the Beothuk tribe, who would paint their skin with red paint, but who knows?
 

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The rest of the world is laughing at Americans even more...

You can make any word offensive these days. You're never going to please everyone unfortunately.

I really wish we could go back to the "sticks and stones may break my bones but names can't hurt me" society. Everyone was more calm back then and people knew how to ignore words and fist fights solved a lot of things too. Now you got butt hurt weaklings threatening lawsuits as their only strength because they aren't real men and can't fight, coinciding with how woman do things. Bring back the 'say it to my face and duke it out days. Only baby boomers and Gen X will probably remember those days.

As far as this specifically, changing names is just a political and PR move. If government really wanted to do something for the Native Americans, forget name changes and just give them back more land. I'm sure they would much rather have that. My $.02
Millennials are a sissified generation. By the 1990s, when the Millennials were in their formative years in school, the schools were ineffective at doling out harsh discipline, and there was no harsh discipline for anything. At the same time, the schools highly discouraged physical fighting and there were threats of suspensions that could impact permanent records and college admissions. Millennials were pushed into the college track more than previous generations, and college was the holy grail.

You're exactly right that this is a PR move. It's a saving face move. The Washington football team was squeezed by the sponsors and retailers. Daniel Snyder needed the merchandise money and if Walmart, Target, and Nike weren't selling Redskins apparel, that's a loss of money. If FedEx was not going to pay the team the naming rights annual payment and sponsorship money, that's a loss of money. If Pepsi wasn't going to pay sponsorship money, that's a loss.

Washington Swamp Rats?
In the mid-1990s, the NBA's New Jersey Nets nearly changed their name to the New Jersey Swamp Dragons.

When the New Jersey Nets moved back to New York City in 2012, they should have gone back to New York Nets instead of Brooklyn Nets. The Nets were the New York Nets during their 1970s heyday in the ABA.
 
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Millennials are a sissified generation. By the 1990s, when the Millennials were in their formative years in school, the schools were ineffective at doling out harsh discipline, and there was no harsh discipline for anything.
How about the Washington Millenials? Instead of the Lombardi, they all get a participation trophy every year.

When the New Jersey Nets moved back to New York City in 2012, they should have gone back to New York Nets instead of Brooklyn Nets. The Nets were the New York Nets during their 1970s heyday in the ABA.
New York Nets sounds a heckuva lot better than Brooklyn Nets.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How about the Washington Millenials? Instead of the Lombardi, they all get a participation trophy every year.

New York Nets sounds a heckuva lot better than Brooklyn Nets.
The Washington football team hasn't done much since the 1991 season. They've spent 3 decades just deserving participation trophies. That sounds a lot like 1980s born Millennials.

The New York Nets were awesome for the 3 years that they had Julius Erving in the 1970s. They've been mostly inept since then, except for fleecing the Phoenix Suns in the Jason Kidd trade in Summer 2001, which led to Finals berths in 2002 and 2003.
 

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The New York Nets were awesome for the 3 years that they had Julius Erving in the 1970s.
I thought it was cool when New York had the Jets, the Mets, and the Nets. They had a theme going on there.
 

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It meant more to me than just football. I was a Redskins fan because of my grandfather, who meant a lot to me when he was around. This makes me feel cold toward this whole country.
It's not the whole country man. It's the left. The left is determined to destroy everything.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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