"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok i was in a 3 year realtionship with a girl with severe bi-polar disorder ect. now 3 months post break up and i feel low in the dumps. im only 28 and i know i should be on the top of my game but im not. what do you guys who are expereinced suggest i do? i have some small short term goals like fixing up my car (finally) and then getting a gym mebership and work out ALOT.
this girl really took a chunk out of me, if anyone is familiar with bipolarism knows what im talking about.

sorry guys if a majority of my posts are about this b.s. but its over now and its time to heal and rebuild:D

bachelor for ever!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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bi-polar disorder
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:rolleyes:

Come on, why do you go for psycho chicks?

They'll give you a lot of headaches!!!
 
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it kinda just happend with this girl. i missed all the warining signs and flags. belive me i will never go through this again
 
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Originally posted by Vercingetorix777
Hey I'm severe bi-polar. I know a lot about it if you have any questions post.
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when i leave her she calls me groveling and crying and seems like she's on the verge of a nervous breakdown, so my question is.. is she crying for me? or is she crying because she's alone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bi-polar people have the habit of falling in love very deeply very early. It's hard for us to tell the depth of a relationship, we tend to think it's a lot deeper then it maybe. In other words yes there's a good chance she's crying cause she feels in love with you. Now borderline personality disorder tends to overlap a lot with bi-polar, borderline ppl are more likely to cry over feelings of abandonment. She could be both but I'm leaning towards she really likes you. I need some more information to be certain.
 
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