"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I never took notice of the traits associated with small handbags. I will from now on.

My only point is that I fully agree that big handbags equal a red flag.
Let me know of ur findings.

So far it's noticeable in all those countries I've worked in.

Maybe Americans are different or if it's the same then its a biological imperative women has that's seen through their handbags.

Then you can be the new Guru of handbags theory.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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5'2 for a man is like midget status, so I can't even knock her for feeling that way
Yeah, I hate to say it, I feel for the guy, but 5'2" is pretty short. It's getting down to primal attraction here.
I know it's shallow, but I'm not going to date a woman who's 6'5". That's a good comparison IMO.

My only point is that I fully agree that big handbags equal a red flag.
I don't know. Some of those girls carry around a lot of weight in those handbags, probably keeps them in shape. Probably like swinging a kettlebell around all day. :)
 

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Yeah, I hate to say it, I feel for the guy, but 5'2" is pretty short. It's getting down to primal attraction here.
I know it's shallow, but I'm not going to date a woman who's 6'5". That's a good comparison IMO.


I don't know. Some of those girls carry around a lot of weight in those handbags, probably keeps them in shape. Probably like swinging a kettlebell around all day. :)
6'5 woman sexy af
 

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6'5 woman sexy af
Some guys like tall women, more power to you. I certainly am not interested in them. I like the shawtys.
6'5'' on a woman is freakishly tall.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Some guys like tall women, more power to you. I certainly am not interested in them. I like the shawtys.
6'5'' on a woman is freakishly tall.
Even a 5'11" women would be an oddity in Europe.

But women in Sweden would be the tallest in my estimations, averaging somewhere about 5'6".

Kiwi, Aussie and Singaporean women in comparison are around 5'3".

Filipino females I think are the shortest.
 

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The average height for a US man is 5'9. If this guy is 5'2, man, I feel sorry for him. The average height is many Asian countries is only 5'4, I'd consider moving there if it were me. I'm only 5'8 and can honestly say that height has never affected my dating or sex life.

Only 13% of US male population is 6'0 or over. How many 6'0+ men actually have game, $, charisma, are fit--I did the math once and posted it here and it's like 1-200,000. So height isn't everything. Plus, I have panache, am very fit, ripped like Hugh Jackman, and can box like Evander so never have a problem handling myself.

I will say that on OLD, and maybe it's just me, but an inordinate number of women I check out are 5'7 or taller which seems strange.
Yeah man, i'm 5'9" on a good day and not once has that affected my dating or sex life...not one time. But...i do feel if I was 5'2", I'd be ****ed although there are some short guys like that at my gym that i do see with pretty girls so there's that.
 

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I’m 6 ft and always felt average/tall for a man. But my dad said “its not the tall guys you have to worry about it’s the short guys”. They tend to be insecure and don’t even know it half the time. But they make the best employees.
 
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