"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"Redding" or blushing...

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Zerix

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Yeah, I hate that I always turn red at the slightest moments... like if I say something stupid (and no one laughs or gives a weird look or something...) or something embarrassing happens.

So, anyone face this too? I wish I could reduce it or make it go away, I say to myself just to laugh it off or simply **** it, but eh, doesn't help.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have this exact problem as well...i don't think there's anything you can do about it...just live with it i guess.
 
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google it...you'll find lots of ideas, probably most of them unhelpful. i have a friend who shares your problem. we take advantage of it often. merely mentioning how his face turns red will usually it to do so.
 
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