"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Redding" or blushing...

Zerix

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Yeah, I hate that I always turn red at the slightest moments... like if I say something stupid (and no one laughs or gives a weird look or something...) or something embarrassing happens.

So, anyone face this too? I wish I could reduce it or make it go away, I say to myself just to laugh it off or simply **** it, but eh, doesn't help.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wanderer*

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I have this exact problem as well...i don't think there's anything you can do about it...just live with it i guess.
 

Throttle

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google it...you'll find lots of ideas, probably most of them unhelpful. i have a friend who shares your problem. we take advantage of it often. merely mentioning how his face turns red will usually it to do so.
 
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