"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Red Pill Theory versus Red Pill Absolutism

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It's relative, however...

Red Pill theory was created (exactly, it was artificially manufactured) for the ex-blue pill men that were minced this way or another by the reality of relationships with women while trying to move according to the Blue Pill rules.

Alpha males are above Red Pill/Blue Pill due to the abundance of LMS/resources thus only they can ignore most limits of both systems (ex. by pretending to respect the rules instead of respecting them genuinely) .
Yeah basically they go from one end of the spectrum to the complete opposite end of the spectrum but have no real idea or understanding of why they are there so they latch on to these ideas instead of paying attention to their interactions with women while they are out on dates and adjusting what doesnt work until they figure out what does...

Imho its a coping mechanism because they cant get laid so they have justify why they are right
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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men are used because of their faulty sense of these abstracts concepts, get sent to war, get taken to the cleaners, get cheated on and die. life goes on, nobody really cares. this is reality

work hard be honest and you will be rewarded in time. disney shlt
exactly
thats why i advocate emotional and physical cheating
 

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i didnt say you had to be a "bad" person either
when i was much younger and inexperienced with my first gf i felt guilt just for talking with other girl on facebook that was interested in me and made it obvious. this is emotional cheating in social media concept. she also wanted to meet but I ignored her, that would be physical cheating.

And you guess what? regardless age, all women emotionally cheat on facebook, dont feel guilt, they know they chat with guys who are interested in them, yet to their boyfriend they will describe them as "JUST FRIENDS" LOL. yeah the girl i was with was doing the same to many guys, while i ignored any chicks attempting it

they probably dont feel guilt when cheating too. but thing is they LIE TO YOUR FACE and you allow it. now emotional cheating is not biggie for me, but why should you play good guy when you clearly see most women will disrespect you in this regard. if they can cheat on you emotionally (and prob physically) then why you cant do it?
 

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Its better to acknowledge all people are evil and interested just in their own profit, where women can get that profit with vaginas, so they monkey branch to higher smv guy not even feeling guilt, and society wont call them hoes now, even if its clear they are in for money
Red pill truth.

Guilt and shame are also vehicles others use to control you. Which is why that sh*t doesn't work on me anymore.

As long as I'm following my own moral standards I'm cool. Other people's standards me jack sh*t to me unless there is MONEY involved lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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