"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Red Pill Aware - My eyes have been opened

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Not sure how I discovered it, though I'm glad I did. I think browsing titles on Amazon, it showed up in the bottom row of page in the "Customers who bought this also item also bought" column. The title "rational male" I found title intriguing, I had to look.
What a book it is a great read !! As the author Rollo says it confronts every ideal instilled in most men today. I know I'm one. I've overdosed on Blue Pills !! The funny thing was as I read it page by page it felt like I honestly knew what was being described. I really related to a lot of the issues raised.
Well as I stated my eyes are open now, I'm aware. I'm half way through the second book and enjoying it as much as the first. It's made me take more notice of social situations and how the meat market is run. It's very interesting to say the least. Both books I believe will have to be reread a few times to absorb all the information detailed.

As a Beta "blue pill" AFC card carrying member all my 38 years of my life I would like to hand my card in :) I've had a enough. I want to learn the arts of the Alpha "red pill" aware males

With what I've read so far it only leaves one question, What's next ? Things are different now, there's no going back.
What do I do with this life changing information I've discovered ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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As a Beta "blue pill" AFC card carrying member all my 38 years of my life I would like to hand my card in
We don't want your card. Put it in the shredder :)

With what I've read so far it only leaves one question, What's next ?
Get yourself on a road to self-improvement. Become the best man you can be. With self-improvement, you will constantly be making things better for yourself. Get rid of the issues you had since you were a child. Get yourself a better job. Put your body in better shape. Find yourself a few women to fvck. All of these things won't come to you for free; You have to work for them. The best part about that is you'll discover a whole bunch of extra benefits along the way.

Self-improvement is extremely rewarding, and it will help build confidence in yourself and your abilities.
 

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We don't want your card. Put it in the shredder :)



Get yourself on a road to self-improvement. Become the best man you can be. With self-improvement, you will constantly be making things better for yourself. Get rid of the issues you had since you were a child. Get yourself a better job. Put your body in better shape. Find yourself a few women to fvck. All of these things won't come to you for free; You have to work for them. The best part about that is you'll discover a whole bunch of extra benefits along the way.

Self-improvement is extremely rewarding, and it will help build confidence in yourself and your abilities.
I'm on that road already, hitting the gym daily. Pretty happy with my job and enjoying life. I need to get my social life and meeting woman in check. Any other books you would recommend ?
 

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Any other books you would recommend ?
The books I've read were all specific to certain problems I had that I wanted to deal with. I had a lot of issues growing up and needed to solve them, so I searched out relevant books that dealt with the subjects. I'd suggest you do the same and solve any problems you may have that are specific to you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I've always thought the term "red pill" was overdramatic and hysterical. Have some self respect, and don't hand control of your balls over to someone else. It's not much more complicated than that.
 

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Dunno. I find red pill useful as a shorthand for a set of valuable principles. I have to be very careful talking to some of my friends. They think I should marry or always have a girlfriend. That if I am single I'm going through a dry patch. That woman will love you for yourself. And lots of other dangerous stupid ideas. I definitely regard them as blue pill. I haven't given up on women but I think I m a realistic and pragmatic unicorn hunter
 

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Rollo Tomassi (who can be found here on occasion) has some great books out on this subject. They are great for outlining things and making sense of it all.
look on Amazon.
 

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Keep reading and learning. Figure out what YOU want, not what society, your family, your boss,some strangers on the internet, or your preacher want you to do. Once you've figured out what YOU want, Think about how to get there and go balls out to get it. When you do, see if there is anything else you want.

Read the forums here, Rollo's articles and the comments underneath them, and I'd say MrMoneyMustache blog. See if you want materialism or freedom.... I don't drive new fancy cars or have a big house, but in 2 or 3 years I will be ABLE to retire at age 59 or 60. IF I WANT to..... I may not want to, but the option will be nice....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That woman will love you for yourself. And lots of other dangerous stupid ideas. I definitely regard them as blue pill. I haven't given up on women but I think I m a realistic and pragmatic unicorn hunter
Actually, I refuse to be fake, so any woman who loves me does love me for myself. What value is there in having her fall in love with a façade? But I consider myself realistic also. Love doesn't necessarily last forever.
 
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