"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Red Pill Aware - My eyes have been opened

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Not sure how I discovered it, though I'm glad I did. I think browsing titles on Amazon, it showed up in the bottom row of page in the "Customers who bought this also item also bought" column. The title "rational male" I found title intriguing, I had to look.
What a book it is a great read !! As the author Rollo says it confronts every ideal instilled in most men today. I know I'm one. I've overdosed on Blue Pills !! The funny thing was as I read it page by page it felt like I honestly knew what was being described. I really related to a lot of the issues raised.
Well as I stated my eyes are open now, I'm aware. I'm half way through the second book and enjoying it as much as the first. It's made me take more notice of social situations and how the meat market is run. It's very interesting to say the least. Both books I believe will have to be reread a few times to absorb all the information detailed.

As a Beta "blue pill" AFC card carrying member all my 38 years of my life I would like to hand my card in :) I've had a enough. I want to learn the arts of the Alpha "red pill" aware males

With what I've read so far it only leaves one question, What's next ? Things are different now, there's no going back.
What do I do with this life changing information I've discovered ?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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As a Beta "blue pill" AFC card carrying member all my 38 years of my life I would like to hand my card in
We don't want your card. Put it in the shredder :)

With what I've read so far it only leaves one question, What's next ?
Get yourself on a road to self-improvement. Become the best man you can be. With self-improvement, you will constantly be making things better for yourself. Get rid of the issues you had since you were a child. Get yourself a better job. Put your body in better shape. Find yourself a few women to fvck. All of these things won't come to you for free; You have to work for them. The best part about that is you'll discover a whole bunch of extra benefits along the way.

Self-improvement is extremely rewarding, and it will help build confidence in yourself and your abilities.
 

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We don't want your card. Put it in the shredder :)



Get yourself on a road to self-improvement. Become the best man you can be. With self-improvement, you will constantly be making things better for yourself. Get rid of the issues you had since you were a child. Get yourself a better job. Put your body in better shape. Find yourself a few women to fvck. All of these things won't come to you for free; You have to work for them. The best part about that is you'll discover a whole bunch of extra benefits along the way.

Self-improvement is extremely rewarding, and it will help build confidence in yourself and your abilities.
I'm on that road already, hitting the gym daily. Pretty happy with my job and enjoying life. I need to get my social life and meeting woman in check. Any other books you would recommend ?
 

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Any other books you would recommend ?
The books I've read were all specific to certain problems I had that I wanted to deal with. I had a lot of issues growing up and needed to solve them, so I searched out relevant books that dealt with the subjects. I'd suggest you do the same and solve any problems you may have that are specific to you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've always thought the term "red pill" was overdramatic and hysterical. Have some self respect, and don't hand control of your balls over to someone else. It's not much more complicated than that.
 

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Dunno. I find red pill useful as a shorthand for a set of valuable principles. I have to be very careful talking to some of my friends. They think I should marry or always have a girlfriend. That if I am single I'm going through a dry patch. That woman will love you for yourself. And lots of other dangerous stupid ideas. I definitely regard them as blue pill. I haven't given up on women but I think I m a realistic and pragmatic unicorn hunter
 

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Rollo Tomassi (who can be found here on occasion) has some great books out on this subject. They are great for outlining things and making sense of it all.
look on Amazon.
 

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Keep reading and learning. Figure out what YOU want, not what society, your family, your boss,some strangers on the internet, or your preacher want you to do. Once you've figured out what YOU want, Think about how to get there and go balls out to get it. When you do, see if there is anything else you want.

Read the forums here, Rollo's articles and the comments underneath them, and I'd say MrMoneyMustache blog. See if you want materialism or freedom.... I don't drive new fancy cars or have a big house, but in 2 or 3 years I will be ABLE to retire at age 59 or 60. IF I WANT to..... I may not want to, but the option will be nice....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That woman will love you for yourself. And lots of other dangerous stupid ideas. I definitely regard them as blue pill. I haven't given up on women but I think I m a realistic and pragmatic unicorn hunter
Actually, I refuse to be fake, so any woman who loves me does love me for myself. What value is there in having her fall in love with a façade? But I consider myself realistic also. Love doesn't necessarily last forever.
 
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