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Yeah, this is basically what I've been doing lol. But the pressure is there and real, especially when she starts bringing her family members in to help with the pressuring.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Red pill and the future!
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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When you meet a woman who tells you" I need a strong man to keep me in line", Just tell her, " I want a "normal" woman who knows how to keep herself in line".....
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"Okay but let me give you the honest truth here, a significant percentage (might be well over 50% right now) of women in America are partnered up/hooked up with men who are not in any type of leadership role. A lot of women are making more money than their guy, have more connections, more education, etc., to where a lot of the decisions within the relationship itself have become 60/40, 70/30, or 80/20 in FAVOR of the woman, where SHE is the one "leading" the household in terms of vision, decision-making, etc. Again, this isn't my opinion, all you have to do is look up various studies that are conducted on this changing cultural dynamic."
"You are correct in that any person in a leadership role needs to be qualified for it, but we are no longer in 1950 and a significant percentage of women in America (I would say maybe the majority at this point) are NOT looking for a patriarchal structure where a man "leads" them so they can submit to his leadership."
I'd like to point out here that "being the man" in a relationship should not have that much to do with how much you make as opposed to her income. If it does, you're in a relationship where the woman is hanging with these type of people who are also like that, and your days as a marriage are numbered. (experience talking here.)
You want a woman that does not hang out with, or necessarily "buy into" this mindset. One can lead a home as the man by example without being the breadwinner, but the difference is the woman you choose. And who her friends are/what her family is like.
"Okay but let me give you the honest truth here, a significant percentage (might be well over 50% right now) of women in America are partnered up/hooked up with men who are not in any type of leadership role. A lot of women are making more money than their guy, have more connections, more education, etc., to where a lot of the decisions within the relationship itself have become 60/40, 70/30, or 80/20 in FAVOR of the woman, where SHE is the one "leading" the household in terms of vision, decision-making, etc. Again, this isn't my opinion, all you have to do is look up various studies that are conducted on this changing cultural dynamic."
"You are correct in that any person in a leadership role needs to be qualified for it, but we are no longer in 1950 and a significant percentage of women in America (I would say maybe the majority at this point) are NOT looking for a patriarchal structure where a man "leads" them so they can submit to his leadership."
I'd like to point out here that "being the man" in a relationship should not have that much to do with how much you make as opposed to her income. If it does, you're in a relationship where the woman is hanging with these type of people who are also like that, and your days as a marriage are numbered. (experience talking here.)
You want a woman that does not hang out with, or necessarily "buy into" this mindset. One can lead a home as the man by example without being the breadwinner, but the difference is the woman you choose. And who her friends are/what her family is like.