Tenacity
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Yeah, this is basically what I've been doing lol. But the pressure is there and real, especially when she starts bringing her family members in to help with the pressuring.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Red pill and the future!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
When you meet a woman who tells you" I need a strong man to keep me in line", Just tell her, " I want a "normal" woman who knows how to keep herself in line".....
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"Okay but let me give you the honest truth here, a significant percentage (might be well over 50% right now) of women in America are partnered up/hooked up with men who are not in any type of leadership role. A lot of women are making more money than their guy, have more connections, more education, etc., to where a lot of the decisions within the relationship itself have become 60/40, 70/30, or 80/20 in FAVOR of the woman, where SHE is the one "leading" the household in terms of vision, decision-making, etc. Again, this isn't my opinion, all you have to do is look up various studies that are conducted on this changing cultural dynamic."
"You are correct in that any person in a leadership role needs to be qualified for it, but we are no longer in 1950 and a significant percentage of women in America (I would say maybe the majority at this point) are NOT looking for a patriarchal structure where a man "leads" them so they can submit to his leadership."
I'd like to point out here that "being the man" in a relationship should not have that much to do with how much you make as opposed to her income. If it does, you're in a relationship where the woman is hanging with these type of people who are also like that, and your days as a marriage are numbered. (experience talking here.)
You want a woman that does not hang out with, or necessarily "buy into" this mindset. One can lead a home as the man by example without being the breadwinner, but the difference is the woman you choose. And who her friends are/what her family is like.
"Okay but let me give you the honest truth here, a significant percentage (might be well over 50% right now) of women in America are partnered up/hooked up with men who are not in any type of leadership role. A lot of women are making more money than their guy, have more connections, more education, etc., to where a lot of the decisions within the relationship itself have become 60/40, 70/30, or 80/20 in FAVOR of the woman, where SHE is the one "leading" the household in terms of vision, decision-making, etc. Again, this isn't my opinion, all you have to do is look up various studies that are conducted on this changing cultural dynamic."
"You are correct in that any person in a leadership role needs to be qualified for it, but we are no longer in 1950 and a significant percentage of women in America (I would say maybe the majority at this point) are NOT looking for a patriarchal structure where a man "leads" them so they can submit to his leadership."
I'd like to point out here that "being the man" in a relationship should not have that much to do with how much you make as opposed to her income. If it does, you're in a relationship where the woman is hanging with these type of people who are also like that, and your days as a marriage are numbered. (experience talking here.)
You want a woman that does not hang out with, or necessarily "buy into" this mindset. One can lead a home as the man by example without being the breadwinner, but the difference is the woman you choose. And who her friends are/what her family is like.