"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Red Flags

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Doc Love says that once a womans interest level starts waning and you start seeing major red flags, you should start hustling other woman. Does that mean you should cheat on your woman if you notice major red flags? What does he mean by this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I am pretty sure this is in the context of dating more than one woman at a time (not LTR's). You should know about all the 'red flags' before you enter a LTR with a woman.
 
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The red flags he's talking about are in the early stages of the relationship... where you probably aren't exclusive to just the one girl.

So, if she starts to flake a bit, you just pull back a little further. Go out with another girl for a night or two, or just get really busy. (you should be busy, anyways)

In the context of you two being in a more serious relationship, you really need to start examining your behaviour. If you are being too clingy and needy (you should never be any of these qualities) she will start to lose interest and you will see red flags. Again, just withdraw your attention, so that she knows she doesn't have you wrapped around her little finger.

That's a pretty generic respeonse but I hope you see what I'm getting at.

What do you define as red flags?
 
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