"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Red Flags

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Doc Love says that once a womans interest level starts waning and you start seeing major red flags, you should start hustling other woman. Does that mean you should cheat on your woman if you notice major red flags? What does he mean by this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am pretty sure this is in the context of dating more than one woman at a time (not LTR's). You should know about all the 'red flags' before you enter a LTR with a woman.
 
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The red flags he's talking about are in the early stages of the relationship... where you probably aren't exclusive to just the one girl.

So, if she starts to flake a bit, you just pull back a little further. Go out with another girl for a night or two, or just get really busy. (you should be busy, anyways)

In the context of you two being in a more serious relationship, you really need to start examining your behaviour. If you are being too clingy and needy (you should never be any of these qualities) she will start to lose interest and you will see red flags. Again, just withdraw your attention, so that she knows she doesn't have you wrapped around her little finger.

That's a pretty generic respeonse but I hope you see what I'm getting at.

What do you define as red flags?
 
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