"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Red Flags

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Doc Love says that once a womans interest level starts waning and you start seeing major red flags, you should start hustling other woman. Does that mean you should cheat on your woman if you notice major red flags? What does he mean by this?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am pretty sure this is in the context of dating more than one woman at a time (not LTR's). You should know about all the 'red flags' before you enter a LTR with a woman.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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The red flags he's talking about are in the early stages of the relationship... where you probably aren't exclusive to just the one girl.

So, if she starts to flake a bit, you just pull back a little further. Go out with another girl for a night or two, or just get really busy. (you should be busy, anyways)

In the context of you two being in a more serious relationship, you really need to start examining your behaviour. If you are being too clingy and needy (you should never be any of these qualities) she will start to lose interest and you will see red flags. Again, just withdraw your attention, so that she knows she doesn't have you wrapped around her little finger.

That's a pretty generic respeonse but I hope you see what I'm getting at.

What do you define as red flags?
 
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