"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Red flags in woman of interest

GeoMan

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Can it get any worse than this:

21 with a kid
No father- real father abonden mother before she was born. Step father commited suicide when she was 6
Slept with over 12 guys
Nasty relationship with baby daddy
Cheated on multiple partners before and been cheated on a lot as well
Virtually no friends of same sex
Lives in complete poverty in the ghetto
Her household consist of her single mother with 4 sisters and one brother.
Mother has three different baby daddy's none of who are around
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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icantgetlaid

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lol i thought this was a running list of examples to stay away from .. not all tied to the same chick. wow.

sadly though i am attracted to this type of girl
 

GeoMan

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lol i thought this was a running list of examples to stay away from .. not all tied to the same chick. wow.

sadly though i am attracted to this type of girl
Yea didn't realize how messed up she was till I started listing them haha
 

Lozboss

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Pull the parachute cord and get out of there!
 

El Payaso

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Spawn of the devil.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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