"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Red flags in woman of interest

GeoMan

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Can it get any worse than this:

21 with a kid
No father- real father abonden mother before she was born. Step father commited suicide when she was 6
Slept with over 12 guys
Nasty relationship with baby daddy
Cheated on multiple partners before and been cheated on a lot as well
Virtually no friends of same sex
Lives in complete poverty in the ghetto
Her household consist of her single mother with 4 sisters and one brother.
Mother has three different baby daddy's none of who are around
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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icantgetlaid

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lol i thought this was a running list of examples to stay away from .. not all tied to the same chick. wow.

sadly though i am attracted to this type of girl
 

GeoMan

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lol i thought this was a running list of examples to stay away from .. not all tied to the same chick. wow.

sadly though i am attracted to this type of girl
Yea didn't realize how messed up she was till I started listing them haha
 

Lozboss

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Pull the parachute cord and get out of there!
 

El Payaso

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Spawn of the devil.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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