“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Red flags aren't everything you need to look for

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Nowadays it would be impossible to find a person without red flags. With this I would like to get to the point that it is good to see whether or not a woman, or a man you want to befriend, or a relative or family member has red flags, personality disorders, etc, but the fact is that you will not find people exempt from this.



Of course, you don't want to be around those who do drugs, drink, or do illicit things.
But at the same time, people who respect you, and who "work" every day like you to improve themselves, can have dark and difficult moments that bring out the monster within them. Just like it happened to you.
This is why I believe that filtering people for red flags is right, but at the end of the day, they will argue and disrespect, from time to time, even if they respect you.


Just curious to hear more about your take, after your many life experiences.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Hey, that’s the theory that no one’s perfect and we all have issues we need to work on from time to time. What your responsibility as a Man in this modern age, is yes, strive for self improvement, work on your issues and inner game yet don’t strive for perfection, work on your empathy skills too so you can have a good foundation for connecting and relating to others. One book I recommend is Emotional Intelligence, it brings a good topic on this issue.
 
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