"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MillionBillionaire

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So I'm pretty sure I can bang this chick...

But she's told me she has has 2 abortions within 1 hour of talking to her ...

At first I was a lil shocked and thinking way to get all political ...

Then I kept thinking ... baby killer!!

Am I being harsh or is this a legit red flag?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Stay. Away.
 

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Lol @dude99
I was going to say, the fact that she has had any should indicate communicate to you that, should you decide to stick your pen1s in her, YOU need to be in top of birth control at all times.

The disclosure itself, so early, it's socially unacceptable, very the question is WHY did she tell you? It appears that maybe she is trying to create some artificial intimacy with you, quickly. Maybe she told you this because she wants to weed out judgemental guys early. You really can't be sure till you get to know her. The question is, are you interested enough to get to know her.

As stated, always know that you are the one who HAS to ensure that birth control is covered.
 

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Lol @dude99
As stated, always know that you are the one who HAS to ensure that birth control is covered.
Cannot state this point enough!

If you get her pregnant, there's the possibility she will suddenly develop a set of morals and decide to 'keep' this one. Ie you

Then she got you for 18 years.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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For whatever side you fall on the political spectrum this is just weird.
 

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lol it may or may not be true, but after 1 hour of talking and she says that... you run for the hills.
 

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She has no concept of the consequences of her own actions or DGAF and she's telling you upfront, so it will then become your fault if she gets knocked up again, or is now. Put her in your rear view mirror.
She's a walking land mine.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Match made in heaven!:p
 

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Iron Maiden recorded a song many years ago entitled "Run for the Hills".

I advise you do the same.
The Number of the Beast was the second album I ever bought, after Judas Priest Screaming for Vengeance (Another Thing Coming). The summer of 1982! Heavy Metal in its prime! Then it went speed metal, grunge metal and Justin Bieber. The End.

I dated a girl who randomly said "I had two abortions" but that was after we dated for at least a week. It means that's the worst thing she did and needs to get it off her chest. My girlfriend never had an abortion and said she would never.
 

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Smash n Dash?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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my first thought it that she seems like the kind of person with no filter/bad social awareness who'd say all sorts of **** she shouldn't when she shouldn't

expect to hear the gory details of her time of the month, the size and shape of her bowel movements, to be kicked out of stores because she loudly told a vulgar story, to be barred from parent teacher conferences at your kid's school because she called one of the other moms a wh0re in front of a dozen kindergarteners, etc.

we all know that one guy who'll say "damn look at that girl's ass!" from 10 feet behind that girl. or the kinda guy who'll be talking about anal sex on line at a mall food court, she sounds like the female version of that.

the red flags would be if she had the abortions because she's just super irresponsible or because she's super cavalier about them or if she's bragging about the abortions to virtue signal because she's a super hardcore liberal or something
 

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This chick has serious boundary issues.

I'm typically of the "f*ck her first and worry about consequences later" mentality, but even I'd run from this one.
 

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Just to report back on this crazy beyach. I hear people on these boards complaining about cluster b's it makes me wonder what cluster this chick is in it must be like cluster z.

So the chick starts showing me her facebook... she flips through some photos and pulls her phone away and says "oopse don't look at that, I TOOK PICTURES OF MY ABORTIONS."

This crazy Beyach posted pictures of her abortions on Facebook. Not only that she has all these pictures of dead deers. There was one pic of a dead deer that didn't make it over a fence. She commented.."Yeah he obviously didn't make it" and half chuckled. Then there were all these pictures of deer being gutted.

Abortion pictures on facebook.. red flag? .... yup

I never met this kinda crazy before.
 

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Just to report back on this crazy beyach. I hear people on these boards complaining about cluster b's it makes me wonder what cluster this chick is in it must be like cluster z.

So the chick starts showing me her facebook... she flips through some photos and pulls her phone away and says "oopse don't look at that, I TOOK PICTURES OF MY ABORTIONS."

This crazy Beyach posted pictures of her abortions on Facebook. Not only that she has all these pictures of dead deers. There was one pic of a dead deer that didn't make it over a fence. She commented.."Yeah he obviously didn't make it" and half chuckled. Then there were all these pictures of deer being gutted.

Abortion pictures on facebook.. red flag? .... yup

I never met this kinda crazy before.
This chick is whacked... I think you know this!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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