"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Red flag challenge hot black chick

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Background on her and red flags:

Hot black chick
Age 30+ Still hot
Had a stillborn child years ago (fukked her up in alot of ways, i feel strong empathy for this I cant imagine the pain and suffering to go through this)
also a miscarriage early trimester
abusive relationship (dude karate kicked her when she said she was no longer attracted)
she smokes cigs and has for like 7 years (always told myself id never date a smoker)
she drinks
considers herself alpha female (in her own words)
she likes to travel
is a school teacher for special education
does seem like a generally good person
has 3 dads LOL. biological dad whos a player
cuck step dad
and the father of her ex bf from like highschool who went to prison shortly after who shes in close connection with (slightly wierd alarming idk)
mom seems domineering
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Julian said:
Background on her and red flags:

Hot black chick
Age 30+ Still hot
Had a stillborn child years ago (fukked her up in alot of ways, i feel strong empathy for this I cant imagine the pain and suffering to go through this)
also a miscarriage early trimester
abusive relationship (dude karate kicked her when she said she was no longer attracted)
she smokes cigs and has for like 7 years (always told myself id never date a smoker)
she drinks
considers herself alpha female (in her own words)
she likes to travel
is a school teacher for special education
does seem like a generally good person
has 3 dads LOL. biological dad whos a player
cuck step dad
and the father of her ex bf from like highschool who went to prison shortly after who shes in close connection with (slightly wierd alarming idk)
mom seems domineering
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So is she CHOOSING you?. Dont you go out there over pursuing these females.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I vote no.

Unless, of course, you are absolutely desperate and think this is the only female on Earth you have a chance with.

If you want to frame this as a "challenge," I recommend getting a fake ID first and pretending your a traveling salesman from Quebec or some other place she'll never come looking for you.
 
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Mind you ive been steady bangin her for like 2 months 4x a week. -_-

You guys are right tho..lost sight of myself for a min there
 
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