"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reconnecting after a few months?

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Matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, got her number and we talked a little but it never led to meeting up. Got distracted with a few other girls but over them and would like a second go at this one.

Any tips on what to say to get her attention again?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, got her number and we talked a little but it never led to meeting up. Got distracted with a few other girls but over them and would like a second go at this one.

Any tips on what to say to get her attention again?
If you remember her name just text her: Hey X. Long time no speak. How's things going?

Or call her and leave a message.

Don't overthink shyt. Just call like it's some dude you know or family member you haven't spoken to and leave a message.

See how things progress and tell her to meet up with you at a place you already will be at or go to a lot.
 

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Matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, got her number and we talked a little but it never led to meeting up. Got distracted with a few other girls but over them and would like a second go at this one.

Any tips on what to say to get her attention again?
Typical response:

Call, and make a definate date.
 

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Are you joking? You are rehashing online women?? Talk about scraping the bucket.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Showing a photo of a girl that you downloaded 6 months ago by stalking her online does not prove much. I post photos of women taken by myself recently with my professional camera, not photos taken by themselves last year with their cell phone in their bathroom mirror.
 

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Showing a photo of a girl that you downloaded 6 months ago by stalking her online does not prove much. I post photos of women taken by myself recently with my professional camera, not photos taken by themselves last year with their cell phone in their bathroom mirror.
Lol haterrrrrrr
 

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Lol haterrrrrrr
Actually, I'm a professional photographerrrrr. Unlike "your" girl.

Have you ever gotten close enough to a woman to take your own photo? With her permission?

And tell me you didn't (laugh out loud). Are you the one pictured?
 

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Actually, I'm a professional photographerrrrr. Unlike "your" girl.

Have you ever gotten close enough to a woman to take your own photo? With her permission?

And tell me you didn't (laugh out loud). Are you the one pictured?
Dude I dont even know what you are trying to say lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Direct her for the date.

If she says no.. than reply "wrong number"

Picture girl: 10/10 body, face 6/10..HB level
Doesnt matter. If you found her to be good. Take her for a date or tell her to stop wasting your time
 

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Dude I dont even know what you are trying to say lol
DelusioNeils "argument" is now switching to "He takes professional pictures of strippers/ models" who ask him to. While you got a picture of a chick who took it with a cell phone and didn't ask you to take it.


DelusioNeil is attempting to REACH at this point.
 
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