"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Reconnecting after a few months?

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Matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, got her number and we talked a little but it never led to meeting up. Got distracted with a few other girls but over them and would like a second go at this one.

Any tips on what to say to get her attention again?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, got her number and we talked a little but it never led to meeting up. Got distracted with a few other girls but over them and would like a second go at this one.

Any tips on what to say to get her attention again?
If you remember her name just text her: Hey X. Long time no speak. How's things going?

Or call her and leave a message.

Don't overthink shyt. Just call like it's some dude you know or family member you haven't spoken to and leave a message.

See how things progress and tell her to meet up with you at a place you already will be at or go to a lot.
 

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Matched with this girl on tinder a few months ago, got her number and we talked a little but it never led to meeting up. Got distracted with a few other girls but over them and would like a second go at this one.

Any tips on what to say to get her attention again?
Typical response:

Call, and make a definate date.
 

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Are you joking? You are rehashing online women?? Talk about scraping the bucket.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Showing a photo of a girl that you downloaded 6 months ago by stalking her online does not prove much. I post photos of women taken by myself recently with my professional camera, not photos taken by themselves last year with their cell phone in their bathroom mirror.
 

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Showing a photo of a girl that you downloaded 6 months ago by stalking her online does not prove much. I post photos of women taken by myself recently with my professional camera, not photos taken by themselves last year with their cell phone in their bathroom mirror.
Lol haterrrrrrr
 

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Lol haterrrrrrr
Actually, I'm a professional photographerrrrr. Unlike "your" girl.

Have you ever gotten close enough to a woman to take your own photo? With her permission?

And tell me you didn't (laugh out loud). Are you the one pictured?
 

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Actually, I'm a professional photographerrrrr. Unlike "your" girl.

Have you ever gotten close enough to a woman to take your own photo? With her permission?

And tell me you didn't (laugh out loud). Are you the one pictured?
Dude I dont even know what you are trying to say lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Direct her for the date.

If she says no.. than reply "wrong number"

Picture girl: 10/10 body, face 6/10..HB level
Doesnt matter. If you found her to be good. Take her for a date or tell her to stop wasting your time
 

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Dude I dont even know what you are trying to say lol
DelusioNeils "argument" is now switching to "He takes professional pictures of strippers/ models" who ask him to. While you got a picture of a chick who took it with a cell phone and didn't ask you to take it.


DelusioNeil is attempting to REACH at this point.
 
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