Reconnected with an old oneitis.. This b!tch is crazy.

[Korrupt]

Okay, in all fairness I already knew she was crazy going into it. But still, sh!t like this is stupid..

Went out with her on Wed, had a lot of fun
Texted the next day saying I had fun and that we should hang out again soon
She responded saying she had a good time as well and agreed about hanging out again soon
Text today about going out next Wed - no response

Lol what is wrong with women these days?

 

[Serg897]

Why are you bothering to "reconnect" with an old oneitis in the first place? You know full well that to do so is ussually a completely useless endeavor, only leads to the reopening of old wounds. Im assuming you had some kind of relationship with this woman in the past. The pool has been pissed in. Leave it behind and find someone else.

 

[bigneil]

You texted first the next day too?

 

[Korrupt]

Why are you bothering to "reconnect" with an old oneitis in the first place? You know full well that to do so is ussually a completely useless endeavor, only leads to the reopening of old wounds. Im assuming you had some kind of relationship with this woman in the past. The pool has been pissed in. Leave it behind and find someone else.

Mainly because I got over her and now realize what her "game" is. Plus I'm attracted to her.

But you are right haha.

You texted first the next day too?

Yes.

 

[Johnnyventana]

Mainly because I got over her and now realize what her "game" is. Plus I'm attracted to her.

That doesn't mean you know how to play it. Texting right away, and then again, the very next day, with this "game player" chick only did one thing, it told her that you are willing and ready to be her standby. So she put you on the shelf for later.

The problem. You never made her work for it. You immediately showed her that you were back and ready to play her game.

These kind of chicks need to wonder. Need to work it. Else they just pull this ****e, right away.

Your only move now, do nothing.

 

[Atom Smasher]

Women thrive on the tension of wondering if a guy likes them or not. It's chick crack. Nuff said.

Johnny, just caught your msg above that says the same thing. I'll leave this for emphasis.

 

[Korrupt]

That doesn't mean you know how to play it. Texting right away, and then again, the very next day, with this "game player" chick only did one thing, it told her that you are willing and ready to be her standby. So she put you on the shelf for later.

The problem. You never made her work for it. You immediately showed her that you were back and ready to play her game.

These kind of chicks need to wonder. Need to work it. Else they just pull this ****e, right away.

Your only move now, do nothing.

At the same time I've f*cked myself over by "letting the girl wonder" and have had success with other women by letting them know I'm interested.

 

[Johnnyventana]

At the same time I've f*cked myself over by "letting the girl wonder" and have had success with other women by letting them know I'm interested.

I hear ya, but that is why this kind of chick sucks arse. They are in some sort of opposite world. And your natural instincts just don't fly with them. You keep doing the same thing over and over, yet expect different results. You expect her to be normal. She's not.

The best quote on this is that, "Scandalous girls are good at what they do because they don't know that they are doing it." i.e. She does not follow the same social norms as you. You have seen what being nice and normal with her gets you. Stop repeating history to your detriment.