"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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okay, well, i dont know if this has been covered, lets say you totally blew it when you first met a girl and hse thinks your a complete *******

in my case, i was talking online in a chat room and i thought she was someone else, that i knew and was kind of friends with, so i caleld her a dumb b1tch. i found out the next day at school that it was someone else, and the girl i called the b1tch freaked out at me because i didnt really know her at all and had no right to judge etc etc

anyway, shes kinda cute, i havent really seen her aorund, but today we walked by eachother and i tried to make EC but she gave me a look that could kill, it was scary as heck

so

how would you guys go about resolving a situation with a girl when you totally blew it with your first impression?
(btw im not asking for advice specific to my situation, i want to know what you would for any occasion)

thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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honestly i would forget it cause i dont think its going to happen just pray she doesnt tell all her friends. But im suresomeone else is more qualifies to give advice about this
 
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also i would like to add **** talk gets you no where in HSno matter who it is ( guy or girl) from now on if someone is talking **** abuot you its because they want your attention (positive or negative) so just give them the " thats cool your dont like ne kinda attitde" and if there a guy kick there ass cause thats just a pride issue.
 
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Originally posted by AlexisonFire25
also i would like to add **** talk gets you no where in HSno matter who it is ( guy or girl) from now on if someone is talking **** abuot you its because they want your attention (positive or negative) so just give them the " thats cool your dont like ne kinda attitde" and if there a guy kick there ass cause thats just a pride issue.
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yeah i dont **** talk anymore ;-)

and thats exactly what i say, or like,s omeone will say something mean and ill say like 'aww thanks your such a sweetheart' stuff like that


and edit-- your right it might be a lost cause, and thats fine with me, but id rather it wasnt, im sure theres something a DJ can do in situations like this
 
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