"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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shagnscoob

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okay, well, i dont know if this has been covered, lets say you totally blew it when you first met a girl and hse thinks your a complete *******

in my case, i was talking online in a chat room and i thought she was someone else, that i knew and was kind of friends with, so i caleld her a dumb b1tch. i found out the next day at school that it was someone else, and the girl i called the b1tch freaked out at me because i didnt really know her at all and had no right to judge etc etc

anyway, shes kinda cute, i havent really seen her aorund, but today we walked by eachother and i tried to make EC but she gave me a look that could kill, it was scary as heck

so

how would you guys go about resolving a situation with a girl when you totally blew it with your first impression?
(btw im not asking for advice specific to my situation, i want to know what you would for any occasion)

thanks!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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honestly i would forget it cause i dont think its going to happen just pray she doesnt tell all her friends. But im suresomeone else is more qualifies to give advice about this
 
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also i would like to add **** talk gets you no where in HSno matter who it is ( guy or girl) from now on if someone is talking **** abuot you its because they want your attention (positive or negative) so just give them the " thats cool your dont like ne kinda attitde" and if there a guy kick there ass cause thats just a pride issue.
 
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Originally posted by AlexisonFire25
also i would like to add **** talk gets you no where in HSno matter who it is ( guy or girl) from now on if someone is talking **** abuot you its because they want your attention (positive or negative) so just give them the " thats cool your dont like ne kinda attitde" and if there a guy kick there ass cause thats just a pride issue.
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yeah i dont **** talk anymore ;-)

and thats exactly what i say, or like,s omeone will say something mean and ill say like 'aww thanks your such a sweetheart' stuff like that


and edit-- your right it might be a lost cause, and thats fine with me, but id rather it wasnt, im sure theres something a DJ can do in situations like this
 
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