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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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reconciling wiht a girl

shagnscoob

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okay, well, i dont know if this has been covered, lets say you totally blew it when you first met a girl and hse thinks your a complete *******

in my case, i was talking online in a chat room and i thought she was someone else, that i knew and was kind of friends with, so i caleld her a dumb b1tch. i found out the next day at school that it was someone else, and the girl i called the b1tch freaked out at me because i didnt really know her at all and had no right to judge etc etc

anyway, shes kinda cute, i havent really seen her aorund, but today we walked by eachother and i tried to make EC but she gave me a look that could kill, it was scary as heck

so

how would you guys go about resolving a situation with a girl when you totally blew it with your first impression?
(btw im not asking for advice specific to my situation, i want to know what you would for any occasion)

thanks!
 

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honestly i would forget it cause i dont think its going to happen just pray she doesnt tell all her friends. But im suresomeone else is more qualifies to give advice about this
 

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also i would like to add **** talk gets you no where in HSno matter who it is ( guy or girl) from now on if someone is talking **** abuot you its because they want your attention (positive or negative) so just give them the " thats cool your dont like ne kinda attitde" and if there a guy kick there ass cause thats just a pride issue.
 

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Originally posted by AlexisonFire25
also i would like to add **** talk gets you no where in HSno matter who it is ( guy or girl) from now on if someone is talking **** abuot you its because they want your attention (positive or negative) so just give them the " thats cool your dont like ne kinda attitde" and if there a guy kick there ass cause thats just a pride issue.

yeah i dont **** talk anymore ;-)

and thats exactly what i say, or like,s omeone will say something mean and ill say like 'aww thanks your such a sweetheart' stuff like that


and edit-- your right it might be a lost cause, and thats fine with me, but id rather it wasnt, im sure theres something a DJ can do in situations like this
 
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