"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Recommended books?

6-heads lewis

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Are there any books you guys can recommend about weightlifting and nutrition?

I just ordered Starting Strength, I'm looking for an accompying book on nutrition. I know the information is available on the internet, but I do my best reading on the subway or toilet.

Thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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For nutrition, I'd say the best is Berardi's Precision Nutrition--it even comes with audio CDs (with mostly the info in the book presented in audio format so you can listen to it in your car or wherever) and some DVDs. By buying it, you also get to be a member of the PN forums where you can get advice from JB's team or The Man himself. Check out www.precisionnutrition.com
 

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thanks, ill check those out. im always hesitant to buy on my own, it seems the best products are rarely commercially popular. if ironaddict endorses it im sure its good.

while running various searches on amazon and google, i found a book called 'dweeb to adonis', thats apparently a great practical self-help book for males... written by a gay man. hmm.
 

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Fred, do you have any experience with 'Scrwany to Brawny' by Berardi? I found it for cheap on Amazon and am alreayd getting free shipping b/c of a bulk order.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't have any first-hand experience, but I haven't heard anything negative about it. I probably would've tried it if I wasn't already big--I don't need or want to put on more mass; if anything I need to lose some. From what I understand it's mostly his PN principles coupled with exercise advice, so it can only be good.
 

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has anyone heard about or read the other Rippetoe book 'Practical Programming for Strength Training'?

Is it worth purhcasing both SS and this, or either/or?
 

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Another decent book, mostly promoting the merits of abbreviated training, is Beyond Brawn by Stuart McRobert. The book is particularly useful to so-called hardgainers who can't handle much frequency and volume, but it's cool to read anyway.

-shaun
 

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My favorite all time book is called the Complete Keys To Progress which you can get at Ironmind.com Its the best book i've EVER owned. I also own some of Berardis stuff too, but the Complete Keys book is amazing, and 7yrs after I got it, I still read it, and would suggest it to everyone in the industry.
 
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