"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Recommended books?

6-heads lewis

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Are there any books you guys can recommend about weightlifting and nutrition?

I just ordered Starting Strength, I'm looking for an accompying book on nutrition. I know the information is available on the internet, but I do my best reading on the subway or toilet.

Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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For nutrition, I'd say the best is Berardi's Precision Nutrition--it even comes with audio CDs (with mostly the info in the book presented in audio format so you can listen to it in your car or wherever) and some DVDs. By buying it, you also get to be a member of the PN forums where you can get advice from JB's team or The Man himself. Check out www.precisionnutrition.com
 

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thanks, ill check those out. im always hesitant to buy on my own, it seems the best products are rarely commercially popular. if ironaddict endorses it im sure its good.

while running various searches on amazon and google, i found a book called 'dweeb to adonis', thats apparently a great practical self-help book for males... written by a gay man. hmm.
 

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Fred, do you have any experience with 'Scrwany to Brawny' by Berardi? I found it for cheap on Amazon and am alreayd getting free shipping b/c of a bulk order.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't have any first-hand experience, but I haven't heard anything negative about it. I probably would've tried it if I wasn't already big--I don't need or want to put on more mass; if anything I need to lose some. From what I understand it's mostly his PN principles coupled with exercise advice, so it can only be good.
 

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has anyone heard about or read the other Rippetoe book 'Practical Programming for Strength Training'?

Is it worth purhcasing both SS and this, or either/or?
 

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Another decent book, mostly promoting the merits of abbreviated training, is Beyond Brawn by Stuart McRobert. The book is particularly useful to so-called hardgainers who can't handle much frequency and volume, but it's cool to read anyway.

-shaun
 

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My favorite all time book is called the Complete Keys To Progress which you can get at Ironmind.com Its the best book i've EVER owned. I also own some of Berardis stuff too, but the Complete Keys book is amazing, and 7yrs after I got it, I still read it, and would suggest it to everyone in the industry.
 
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