"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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recommended books on body language?

speakeasy

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I've decided that I need to understand body language. What are your favorite books on this topic?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Get a DVD set called "Body Language For Attracting Women" (David deAngelo), good information there.
 

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Buy a book on body language? It isnt hard. Google body language, search here for body language and you are set. there is no big test that you have to take. You want to learn some of the stuff in the field and most of the stuff is overkill
 

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Bat said:
Get a DVD set called "Body Language For Attracting Women" (David deAngelo), good information there.
Not looking to drop that kinda money that a DVD set from the professional PUAs are gonna charge. A simple book will do. I know there's a lot out there. Just wondering what are some of the favs of DJs on this board.
 

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I have a couple of books on body language that I ordered off Amazon, because I am often told I often have a look of disdain and disinterest and that I never recognize when girls are interested.

Both books were pretty much filler, not worth the price.

Pretty much everything that was in them was also on the web. As someone said earlier, just type "body language" and "flirting" on Google and you'll find enough to get you by.

Body language is problematic, anyhow. After I'd read those books I tried to apply them by reading the language of the girls around me... and found that so much of it has to do with the girl themself. Shy girls might be very subtle or conflicted with their movements and positions, while others might throw off signals left and right because they don't know what they're doing.

But once you a better feel for the individual girl's personality, it gets easier.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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