"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Recommended Books for DJs?

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The Way You Wear Your Hat and the Lost Art of Livin'
Bill Zehme

This book is all about Frank Sinatra. It really goes into alot of his attitude and beliefs. Some advice may sound AFC and contradictory to this board but its still a great book. Its probably more useful in learning about Alpha characteristics.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"How to think like Leonardo Da Vinci" by Michael Gelb

"Influence: The psychology of persuasion" Robert Cialdini

"Body Language" Julius Fast

"Why men love *****es" Sherry Argov

"The Casanova Sexicon" Eric Nicol

and finally the 2 by Robert Greene.


you really cant give a solid list. there is different books depending on your style...

which reminds me...

"The Game" by Neil Strauss
 

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prometheus rising-by Robert Anton Wilson
(swinggcat also suggested this one but I read 5 years ago)

And the truth shall set you free-by David Icke (if you want to know who controls/owns you/the world, and what you can do about it)
 

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comedy writing secrets is not worth it. A LOT of useless info. the only main points worth checking could have been broken down to several pages (basically thinking outside the box and exaggeration) when you have time, skim through it @ the bookstore & you'll agree with me
 
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