"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Recommended Books for DJs?

Cappy da pimp

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The Way You Wear Your Hat and the Lost Art of Livin'
Bill Zehme

This book is all about Frank Sinatra. It really goes into alot of his attitude and beliefs. Some advice may sound AFC and contradictory to this board but its still a great book. Its probably more useful in learning about Alpha characteristics.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"How to think like Leonardo Da Vinci" by Michael Gelb

"Influence: The psychology of persuasion" Robert Cialdini

"Body Language" Julius Fast

"Why men love *****es" Sherry Argov

"The Casanova Sexicon" Eric Nicol

and finally the 2 by Robert Greene.


you really cant give a solid list. there is different books depending on your style...

which reminds me...

"The Game" by Neil Strauss
 

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prometheus rising-by Robert Anton Wilson
(swinggcat also suggested this one but I read 5 years ago)

And the truth shall set you free-by David Icke (if you want to know who controls/owns you/the world, and what you can do about it)
 

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comedy writing secrets is not worth it. A LOT of useless info. the only main points worth checking could have been broken down to several pages (basically thinking outside the box and exaggeration) when you have time, skim through it @ the bookstore & you'll agree with me
 
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