"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Recommend antiperspirant?

Not Dead Yet

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They've discontinued my favorite deodorant - Speed Stick Musk. I've worn it for years as my only scent and girls loved it.

I'm in the market for a replacement _antiperspirant_. My son recommends Old Spice Fiji. Any of you DJs have a recommendation you can share?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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corsica

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I use Dove Men Clean Comfort (~$5.5). Doesn't stain your shirts (mostly).

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If you want to save money, you can buy Sure for $2. They have 2 scents and an unscented version which is nice if you don't want to go out with a bunch of different scents (perfume, deodorant, shaving lotion, shampoo, etc).

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The active ingredient is always the same for an effective antiperspirant; Aluminum Zirconium Tetrachlorohydrex GLY ~15%.

Also for the less experienced men; Use scissors to trim your armpit hair in case you have a bush. Makes the deodorant more effective if it actually touches your skin.
 

lost_blackbird

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Mitchum Mens Triple odour 48hr in Ice Fresh

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BackInTheGame78

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Have to use a combo AP+D...AP by itself gives me a really bad painful rash after a few days...obvious allergic reaction.

I like Degree and Right Guard
 
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