picard
Master Don Juan
Is this recession put a damper on your enthusiasm on dating women?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
recession dampen your enthusiasm on dating?
- Thread starter picard
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Unless your mind is on worrying about loosing your job, or other rescission related subjects, I would suspect most people will still do about the same things that they currently are doing now. We are a creature of habits and habits are hard to change…..especially if hard wired.
Unless your mind is on worrying about loosing your job, or other rescission related subjects, I would suspect most people will still do about the same things that they currently are doing now. We are a creature of habits and habits are hard to change…..especially if hard wired.
Yes. Im riding the unenjoyment train (hence, my frequent posts lately), and have a VERY limited budget and it affects my confidence a LITTLE, but not a whole lot. I have been wanting to expand my comfort zone, but all the new bars/clubs I want to sarge at are out of my price range, currently. I guess I could be practicing daygame.
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I'm excited about this depression. I'm laid off, but, I still have my job. I need this time off Badly. I've been working non-stop since May '08. This week I've gotten a Lot of stuff accomplished that I otherwise wouldn't have gotten accomplished, such as going to the doctor, dentist, buying guns, Studying pickup, listening to podcasts on pickup, cleaning my apartment! - Wow, this has been Work like 10 hours already put in sweeping, mopping, bed, vacuuming, cleaning the stove toilet shower counters fridge microwave. My place is very clean now for bringing home women. I moved my bed to face the door when she walks in my room. It looks welcoming for sex.
I've totally changed my routine and am going out to totally different places at totally different times to meet chicks. I've been to four different churches in the past couple of weeks.
Would bowling be better for changing things up and meeting chicks or would going to a pool hall?
I've totally changed my routine and am going out to totally different places at totally different times to meet chicks. I've been to four different churches in the past couple of weeks.
Would bowling be better for changing things up and meeting chicks or would going to a pool hall?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Yeah, Im trying to make use of all the time I have. I've been trying to teach myself how to build this website idea I came up with, but its complicated as hell. I might see if there is a way to sell my idea, cuz it hasn't been done, and Im way over my head.blueblue said:
I've been studying pickup like a motherfvcker, too. Plenty of time for that. It just sucks getting three hundred bucks a week less than I was getting. Im a painter by trade, and half the companies here have went under in the last few months, plus its winter, so its slow anyways, cuz you cant paint outside, so basically there are hundreds of painters out of work here. I really dont have much of a chance for finding any work for a couple more months. Almost everyone I know is laid off, too.
I did get an offer to play guitar for a Prince tribute band. I didnt want to at first, but I think Im gonna do it, now. Im not scared of expanding my horizons, number one. Number two, his guitar lines are way harder than they sound. Number three, There is actually big money in tribute bands, like two to three thousand a night. Number four, There would be HELLA pvssy in the crowd! Chicks LOVE prince. I have plenty of time to figure out all his songs now, too.