picard
Master Don Juan
Is this recession put a damper on your enthusiasm on dating women?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
recession dampen your enthusiasm on dating?
- Thread starter picard
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Unless your mind is on worrying about loosing your job, or other rescission related subjects, I would suspect most people will still do about the same things that they currently are doing now. We are a creature of habits and habits are hard to change…..especially if hard wired.
Unless your mind is on worrying about loosing your job, or other rescission related subjects, I would suspect most people will still do about the same things that they currently are doing now. We are a creature of habits and habits are hard to change…..especially if hard wired.
Yes. Im riding the unenjoyment train (hence, my frequent posts lately), and have a VERY limited budget and it affects my confidence a LITTLE, but not a whole lot. I have been wanting to expand my comfort zone, but all the new bars/clubs I want to sarge at are out of my price range, currently. I guess I could be practicing daygame.
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I'm excited about this depression. I'm laid off, but, I still have my job. I need this time off Badly. I've been working non-stop since May '08. This week I've gotten a Lot of stuff accomplished that I otherwise wouldn't have gotten accomplished, such as going to the doctor, dentist, buying guns, Studying pickup, listening to podcasts on pickup, cleaning my apartment! - Wow, this has been Work like 10 hours already put in sweeping, mopping, bed, vacuuming, cleaning the stove toilet shower counters fridge microwave. My place is very clean now for bringing home women. I moved my bed to face the door when she walks in my room. It looks welcoming for sex.
I've totally changed my routine and am going out to totally different places at totally different times to meet chicks. I've been to four different churches in the past couple of weeks.
Would bowling be better for changing things up and meeting chicks or would going to a pool hall?
I've totally changed my routine and am going out to totally different places at totally different times to meet chicks. I've been to four different churches in the past couple of weeks.
Would bowling be better for changing things up and meeting chicks or would going to a pool hall?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah, Im trying to make use of all the time I have. I've been trying to teach myself how to build this website idea I came up with, but its complicated as hell. I might see if there is a way to sell my idea, cuz it hasn't been done, and Im way over my head.blueblue said:
I've been studying pickup like a motherfvcker, too. Plenty of time for that. It just sucks getting three hundred bucks a week less than I was getting. Im a painter by trade, and half the companies here have went under in the last few months, plus its winter, so its slow anyways, cuz you cant paint outside, so basically there are hundreds of painters out of work here. I really dont have much of a chance for finding any work for a couple more months. Almost everyone I know is laid off, too.
I did get an offer to play guitar for a Prince tribute band. I didnt want to at first, but I think Im gonna do it, now. Im not scared of expanding my horizons, number one. Number two, his guitar lines are way harder than they sound. Number three, There is actually big money in tribute bands, like two to three thousand a night. Number four, There would be HELLA pvssy in the crowd! Chicks LOVE prince. I have plenty of time to figure out all his songs now, too.