doublestandards
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After a 3-year long LTR (no previous experience with women), having beaten a depression and an apathy, having done some serious self-analysis, having read Rational Male and agreed with most of the concepts and ideas - I firmly decided to develop some Game skills and improve my positive (non-existent up to now) masculinity before settling into another LTR.
I really enjoyed spending an evening with a friend of a friend. And then a weekend. And then another evening. No sex. She is 3 years my senior (I am 26). Following Rollo's philosophy, I should be spinning plates (which i have only one of at the moment), but i feel that my world starts being locked on her smile.
On one hand, I don't remember having such a good time with anyone in the last couple of years and with my old AFC mentality I would have kept seeing her, would have kept trying to make an LTR out of it. On the other hand, with the new knowledge, I understand that it is either have sex with her and keep in touch if there is no commitment or NEXT her.
Is it always that black and white? Is my thinking sound?
I really enjoyed spending an evening with a friend of a friend. And then a weekend. And then another evening. No sex. She is 3 years my senior (I am 26). Following Rollo's philosophy, I should be spinning plates (which i have only one of at the moment), but i feel that my world starts being locked on her smile.
On one hand, I don't remember having such a good time with anyone in the last couple of years and with my old AFC mentality I would have kept seeing her, would have kept trying to make an LTR out of it. On the other hand, with the new knowledge, I understand that it is either have sex with her and keep in touch if there is no commitment or NEXT her.
Is it always that black and white? Is my thinking sound?
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