"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some of the women at work think I'm a womanizer. what exactly is a womanizer?

How should I handle this situation? Are these women just bitter that I'm dating many women at the same time?


For example, I made a bet with the guys at work that I could get the new girl to move into one of the empty offices for a few days. (so we could see her as we walked by) So.. I went over to her, had a short 5 min conversation, and in no time she was in the other office working away. I'm not even her boss just a contractor.

Last week I had a woman at work BJing a peice of red lickerish in the lunch room.

maybe I've went too far :) but I'm just being myself.

WHAT THE F**K is a womanizer?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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but I don't use them or abuse them. I just know how to talk to them and make them feel good. what is wrong with that?
 

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retards. ah who cares they are older women anyway.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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yeah I know, you just how to push their buttons, and ya punch em a few times in teh face eh, I don't see whats wrong with that.



jk ;) they probably mean in it in a player kinda way.
 

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soo I should punch them in the face? :)
 

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works for me *goes and punches a woman in teh face*.
 

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He Reiki.

I don’t come here often, every six months to see how you are doing my young DJs.

I don’t see that you are abusing any woman. You are doing well, man. Whenever I hear those terms from a woman, I realize that what I am doing is working.

See, when a woman meets a man who knows their Games, Tests and their Tricks, and, therefore, acts confidence, arrogant, ball busting, playing hard to get as they (women) do, they call him:
1-Womanizer.
2-Player.
3-Jerk.
4-Badboy…etc
Believe me, they call me all of this. Do you know why they called me this?….they want me to stop what I am doing and act like GENTLEMAN who respect woman!… GENTLEMAN!!…..Respect!!!…duh… (believe me, I never disrespect women but I don’t take their crap. If they bulsh*t me, I walk away from them…..simple.) Their motive is to put you down, and to make you act like an insecure ass. They want you to act like a NICE GUY and stop acting like a REAL MAN! Because whenever you act the way you are acting now, they are becoming more attracted to you but they wont tell you…..SCARY….because they know that they will end up in bed with a REAL MAN, YOU.

The scary thing is that you are affected, man. YES, YOU ARE AFFECTED. You are wondering how to change the way you behave…..uch…..don’t…. stop thinking that way……who cares what women or a men who are jealous and insecure tell you?… if you want to succeed in this world and women, STOP allowing others to dictate what to do and how to act of your life…..this is your life. You do and behave the way that you desire…..PERIOD.

Congrats man, if you were labeled as a womanizer, it means that they somewhat want you. I GRANTEE. Keep doing what you are doing.

Other tip, if anyone tells you that again, shake your head and laugh at them. Make them feel, as they don’t understand what you are doing. You will see a good result.

Hope it helps.
 

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Originally posted by jama
See, when a woman meets a man who knows their Games, Tests and their Tricks, and, therefore, acts confidence, arrogant, ball busting, playing hard to get as they (women) do, they call him:
1-Womanizer.
2-Player.
3-Jerk.
4-Badboy…etc
Believe me, they call me all of this. Do you know why they called me this?….they want me to stop what I am doing and act like GENTLEMAN who respect woman!… GENTLEMAN!!…..Respect!!!…duh… (believe me, I never disrespect women but I don’t take their crap. If they bulsh*t me, I walk away from them…..simple.) Their motive is to put you down, and to make you act like an insecure ass. They want you to act like a NICE GUY and stop acting like a REAL MAN! Because whenever you act the way you are acting now, they are becoming more attracted to you but they wont tell you…..SCARY….because they know that they will end up in bed with a REAL MAN, YOU.
^He's right.

Think about back in your AFC days, if you had any, to when there were certain girls who you would call "sluts" or "*****s". Girls who would sleep around a lot or perhaps dressed or acted a certain sexual way.

Ask yourself if you weren't putting that label on them because deep down, secretly, YOU wanted to be the one f**king her. You called her a "slut" because you saw how she was sleeping with someone else (maybe more than one) and you thought to yourself, "It's WRONG for her to be sleeping with other guys, she should be sleeping with ONE guy...ME!"

But to preserve your pride, you put the label "slut" on her and think "I'm too good for HER." You might be right, objectively you ARE too good for a tramp like that. But deep down, amidst your animal instincts, you still want to bend her over and....

Anyway, the way I look at it, every man is a "player" and a "womanizer" until he finds a woman he really likes. Chicks are the same way...they play the field. It's just that a MALE player is so much more rare than a female player because there are so many chumps out there willing to give it up to a girl in heat, who lack dignity and have been thoroughly brainwashed to believe "p00n count" is the most imporant part of their lives.

I'd just take the ASF guys' approach and ask, "What is it about 'womanizers' that turns you on so much?" Or ask her outright, "Does you thinking I'm a womanizer intimidate you?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Womanizer - a fellow who can get ladies to do things he wants
them to. Thats not to say they don't want to do them too. Some would categorize him as a manipulator.

How to handle it?
Depends on if they said it jokingly or not. I would take it as a compliment either way, but thats just me.
 

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** update ***

due to my "womanizing ways" :) the women at work ar all over me..

back massages, sexual enuendo, rubing my face to feel my clean shave... etc...

if I was a woman I would consider all this **** sexual harasment... but of course I'm not complaining... :)


I guess once the word gets out that you are a womanizer your set.
 
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Recently called a womanizer!
Some of the women at work think I'm a womanizer. what exactly is a womanizer?





CONGRADULATIONS KID!!!!!

Your now officially thought of as a Player! Welcome to the hateration by women club.
 
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