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Receiving Compliments

Jason17

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I get alot of compliments from women. Especially about my hair, and my shoes. Usually, when I get compliments I say thanks and then continue with a conversation. I was wondering if there are any better responses to compliments?
 

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Interpol

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You can always make a joke about it...

Her: I love you hair!
You: Please, you think you're the only girl who's told me that?

Make sure she can tell you're kidding though, or you could really sound like an *******.
 

Luscious

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If you get an unsolicitied compliment from a woman, it's a good sign. She's trying to show some interest, if somewhat discreetly.

I usually always begin with "thank you..." and then lead in from there.

You could go many places from there. Bust on her for 'hitting on you so obviously' (and watch her blush).

The possibilities are limitless. If she compliments something like your shirt, just lead it into something like 'the fabric feels nice too, here, try' and have her touch it.

If she compliments YOU first, you don't need to exhibit a whole lot of tact in leading the next part of the conversation. She's shown that she's interested, so you need to show your interest in return - but there is very little risk of rejection.
 

NotaGoatLover

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Girls giving compliments is one of the BEST ways to get a conversation going...... you can just turn the whole convo around...

Her: Nice Hair
You: I'm not sleeping with you......

You can do so many things with compliments....
 

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Is that all I am to you... a sexy head of hair and a flashy pair of shoes? I have feelings - you know. Im not some piece of meat, or some damn sex toy!

Say it with a straight face for an amazing laugh and some skyrocketed interest.
 

TonyTheTigerOI

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Her: Nice Hair
You: I'm not sleeping with you......


Dont say your not sleeping with her. Thats no fun and its not what EITHER of you want to hear. Just let her know shes going to have to WORK if she wants to sleep with you.
 

NotaGoatLover

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Her: Nice Hair
You: I'm not sleeping with you......


Dont say your not sleeping with her. Thats no fun and its not what EITHER of you want to hear. **Just let her know shes going to have to WORK if she wants to sleep with you.**
My point Exactly!
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Her: Nice Hair
You: I'm not sleeping with you......


Dont say your not sleeping with her. Thats no fun and its not what EITHER of you want to hear. Just let her know shes going to have to WORK if she wants to sleep with you.
Yeah, if you are explicit by saying that, you shot yourself in the foot. If you say something like, "Don't think complimenting me is going to get me to sleep with you" That implies her to try harder and it is already assumed she wants you.
 
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