I'm in college, its Christmas break, so everyone is back at their respective homes. My gf has been sending some pictures of herself to my cellphone for the last few days. However, tonight I got 2 more of these pics (clearly from the same set) from two different numbers. I checked the area codes on these numbers and they are from two separate states, both of which are far away from where me or my gf lives OR where we go to school. WTF?
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
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Received pics of my gf from 2 different out of state numbers
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Neurosponge
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did you try texting/calling those numbers? That will give you a good clue (if it's a guy or what).
As for not sleeping, this means you are overly (read AFC) concerned and worried... IMO you're setting yourself up for a very heartbreaking ordeal if worse comes to worse.
As for not sleeping, this means you are overly (read AFC) concerned and worried... IMO you're setting yourself up for a very heartbreaking ordeal if worse comes to worse.
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Who cares? Really. You can't sleep over this?vlf445 said:
Cripes man, you're going to lose your girlfriend if you get suspicious over things that could have a brazillion reasons all of which would not be suspicious.
I mean, let's say we're going for the worst option: Your girlfriend is sending pictures of herself across the united states in a master plan to get at least one on a phone in each state. Like a reverse scavenger hunt. Then, we could add that each person getting a picture randomly chose your phone number to forward it to out of 200,000,000 phone numbers.
Buy a lottery ticket tomorrow.
And, get some sleep you bonehead.
Or, if you still can't sleep after a while, take pictures of yourself and send them back.
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maybe shes borrwing peoples phones??
PlaysToWin
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Could there be a technical explanation for this? Maybe there was a glitch in the phone service provider and it caused the wrong number to be attached to messages that your gf sent? It's certainly unusual, but things like this have been known to happen.
And if that's the case...maybe it's better you don't send any pics back to those numbers, hehe.
And if that's the case...maybe it's better you don't send any pics back to those numbers, hehe.
I've been trying to find out if there is a technical explanation...no luck. If anyone has any knowledge on the subject I'd really appreciate the help. I would love to put my mind at ease...whether for better or worse. Can a picture message be re-routed through somebody else's phone? Or am I gettin a fool made of myself...
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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
PlaysToWin
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This is the best I can do: A relation of someone I know, an old lady who knew the land line number of a friend of hers off by heart, one day rung up her friend only to be out through to some other household. Naturally she assumed she rang the wrong number so she hung up and tried again only to get through to the same person. All sorts of crazy thoughts went through her head... was she going senile? Was there someone else in the house she was ringing? It later turned out (acknowledged by the phone company) that some weird switchboard glitch meant that for a few days, the phone numbers of 2 different houses were swapped.
Could something like this be happening in your case? Nobody knows. Look, you're not going to get the proof you need, I'm sorry to say. You're going to have to put your own mind at ease.
Can you think of any other plausable explanation? Are there any other indications that your girlfriend may be unfaithful? If the answer to both these questions is no then my advice is to assume the best and stop being so paranoid.
Could something like this be happening in your case? Nobody knows. Look, you're not going to get the proof you need, I'm sorry to say. You're going to have to put your own mind at ease.
Can you think of any other plausable explanation? Are there any other indications that your girlfriend may be unfaithful? If the answer to both these questions is no then my advice is to assume the best and stop being so paranoid.
15 responses and no one suggested the easiest way out: can you just bring it up with her?
from her response you will have a better feel of what's going on. If she comes up with an instant explanation that is simple and matter of fact, then you stop worrying.
If she takes a long pause, she gives you a far fetched explanation or loses her cool, then you know something is up. I also suggest doing this when you're face to face with her so you can better judge her reaction.
from her response you will have a better feel of what's going on. If she comes up with an instant explanation that is simple and matter of fact, then you stop worrying.
If she takes a long pause, she gives you a far fetched explanation or loses her cool, then you know something is up. I also suggest doing this when you're face to face with her so you can better judge her reaction.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PlaysToWin
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Yeah, but ths risks demonstrating your paranoia and insecurity to her.
sodbuster
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Could she have friends home for x-mas from other states?
It's happened to me
This happened to me. Twice actually. Once on the date of this post and the other the day before. They both contained pictures of climbable places (been playing too much Assassin's Creed II recently) so I could tell they were coming from my friend. The one I got today replied saying that they had no clue what was going on and it was probably a glitch. I agree with this person, especially during this time, where people are communicating with one another, so numbers may just be glitched up and attached to different messages and what not. This may just be the same situation you're in, so don't let it trouble you. I'm sure that your girlfriend isn't cheating on you. Maybe the phone company's having problems, but you shouldn't be. Sleep well, my friend. :yes:
This happened to me. Twice actually. Once on the date of this post and the other the day before. They both contained pictures of climbable places (been playing too much Assassin's Creed II recently) so I could tell they were coming from my friend. The one I got today replied saying that they had no clue what was going on and it was probably a glitch. I agree with this person, especially during this time, where people are communicating with one another, so numbers may just be glitched up and attached to different messages and what not. This may just be the same situation you're in, so don't let it trouble you. I'm sure that your girlfriend isn't cheating on you. Maybe the phone company's having problems, but you shouldn't be. Sleep well, my friend. :yes: