"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Receding Hairline Already!? (Pics)

Juice09

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I'm only 18, and I think I have a receding hairline. I went to get a haircut yesterday and when I came home, I realized my hairline didn't look like it should.

Side: http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/1705/84275052pb0.jpg
Top: http://img25.imageshack.us/img25/7945/58616462yd5.jpg
Front: http://img228.imageshack.us/img228/4592/64167763pq1.jpg

This is scaring me ****less. I don't want to go bald this early in my life.

I don't think the cause is genetic. There is no serious baldness on either side of my family. My grandpa has a slightly receded hairline, but he's in his 60's and greyed out already.

The only thing I can think of is, I've been working out excessively these past few months. If excessive testosterone causes balding, and working out causes a rise in your testosterone levels, should I stop working out?

Is there anything I can do to curb this before it becomes a real problem?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Five To One

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Little fun fact for ya, as soon as boys go into purberty, their hair begins to reced. Of course some are faster than others.

But really looking at the pictures you look fine, my hair isnt short like yours but if i pull my hair up it would stop where yours does, i just checked. And im 18 btw.

I wouldnt worry about it, even if you lose your hair in say, 10 years, I figure hair replacement technology will be very good, almost perfected dont you agree?

If your still worried about it then just grow your hair out to two or three inches and your good to go
 

Upside

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Losing hair is genetic. You can pull it out, burn it, or sell it on E-Bay and it will grow back if your genes say it can. Too much working out has nothing to do with it. It is purely genetic.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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