"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Receding Hairline Already!? (Pics)

Juice09

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I'm only 18, and I think I have a receding hairline. I went to get a haircut yesterday and when I came home, I realized my hairline didn't look like it should.

Side: http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/1705/84275052pb0.jpg
Top: http://img25.imageshack.us/img25/7945/58616462yd5.jpg
Front: http://img228.imageshack.us/img228/4592/64167763pq1.jpg

This is scaring me ****less. I don't want to go bald this early in my life.

I don't think the cause is genetic. There is no serious baldness on either side of my family. My grandpa has a slightly receded hairline, but he's in his 60's and greyed out already.

The only thing I can think of is, I've been working out excessively these past few months. If excessive testosterone causes balding, and working out causes a rise in your testosterone levels, should I stop working out?

Is there anything I can do to curb this before it becomes a real problem?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Five To One

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Little fun fact for ya, as soon as boys go into purberty, their hair begins to reced. Of course some are faster than others.

But really looking at the pictures you look fine, my hair isnt short like yours but if i pull my hair up it would stop where yours does, i just checked. And im 18 btw.

I wouldnt worry about it, even if you lose your hair in say, 10 years, I figure hair replacement technology will be very good, almost perfected dont you agree?

If your still worried about it then just grow your hair out to two or three inches and your good to go
 

Upside

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Losing hair is genetic. You can pull it out, burn it, or sell it on E-Bay and it will grow back if your genes say it can. Too much working out has nothing to do with it. It is purely genetic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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