"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rebound...?

Squidward

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Ok, so I've been with my girl for a while now and we are in a relationship. She always seems to tell people how happy I make her and all that bollocks. But, something just seems out of place, This Monday and Tuesday, she told me she felt down but no reason why. Today I think I found a reason; Her AFC Ex. For some reason, he just won't come to terms about her dumping him and is groveling over her. Moving on, I over heard her friend say " How is the [His Name] Situation?". Now I'm not insucure by no means, but why would she be upset over what ever is happening STILL over them two? Why is something that ended a few months ago still happenng? Sorry if this is not so clear, but dang... I need this making clear!

Thanks.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Squidward, I don't know how things work in Bikini Bottom. But, Beware of becoming the redbound guy. :nono: (As Fransico would say..)

You gotta take action and show her why your better than her ex. Don't brag about why your better. Show her. Be fun and do fun things with her. Fvck her like she never been fvcked before. Be different!
 

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This sh't pisses me off, when some dumbass can't get over his girl because he don't have the balls to move on and find some new girl. Unfukinbelievable. Although that wouldn't be a smart move to show the girl how much it pisses you off because that will show that you're mentally unstable.

I'd say I agree with Asscont, do something to make that fvcker realize she moved on with her life. For example, if he calls, ask if her if you can talk to him, then just be cool and be like, "Yeah were out having a good time buddy, I think she likes me, you should hang out with us too someday." Then if he's stupid enough to accept your invite, make out with her in front of him. Maybe he'll get the point, maybe he'll get angry and want to fight (highly doubtful, exes that won't let go are usually pvssies)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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