"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rebound? + "Thank you" >_<

faiNt`

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Two situations here ..

First, a girl I like who has had a boyfriend since at least last Christmas isn't going out with him anymore. While she was going out with this guy I'm sure that she knew I liked her because she would play this game trying to guess who it was and she basically found out (I didn't tell her though). Anyway, now that they aren't going out should wait a little? Not sure on the whole rebounding thing if it's ok or not.

Second thing, a girl said my writing was cute (lol) kinda caught me off-guard and I was just like "Oh thanks .." I know that's a really bad answer but does that mess up any chance I have with her? She's kinda hot.

And lastly, I need something to talk about with a girl that takes up like 30 seconds because I really ran out of things the first 2 months we walked together. I try not to let those akward silences happen but sometimes they do and BLEHHHHH annoying >_<
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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GaryUranga

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for 1 I wouldnt take the rebound unless I didnt want anything more than a 1 nighter thing with that girl.

for 2, is your question about that being an ioi? or about if it messed your up? cause the answer to either is neither

for 3, why are yous askign for a 30 sec convo, make ti yourself you know her better than anyone here
 

Bonafide

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Lol when she said your writing was cute... you should of said... yeah I know it really resembles me :crackup:
 
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