Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rebound? + "Thank you" >_<

faiNt`

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Two situations here ..

First, a girl I like who has had a boyfriend since at least last Christmas isn't going out with him anymore. While she was going out with this guy I'm sure that she knew I liked her because she would play this game trying to guess who it was and she basically found out (I didn't tell her though). Anyway, now that they aren't going out should wait a little? Not sure on the whole rebounding thing if it's ok or not.

Second thing, a girl said my writing was cute (lol) kinda caught me off-guard and I was just like "Oh thanks .." I know that's a really bad answer but does that mess up any chance I have with her? She's kinda hot.

And lastly, I need something to talk about with a girl that takes up like 30 seconds because I really ran out of things the first 2 months we walked together. I try not to let those akward silences happen but sometimes they do and BLEHHHHH annoying >_<
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GaryUranga

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for 1 I wouldnt take the rebound unless I didnt want anything more than a 1 nighter thing with that girl.

for 2, is your question about that being an ioi? or about if it messed your up? cause the answer to either is neither

for 3, why are yous askign for a 30 sec convo, make ti yourself you know her better than anyone here
 

Bonafide

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Lol when she said your writing was cute... you should of said... yeah I know it really resembles me :crackup:
 
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