"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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reasons to reject dance floor

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sportf190

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i know lookks are the biggest thing when going up to dance to a girl but does age matter considering im going to clubs with mainly 18+ women and im 17?? could it be i look to young? or is it just im ugly thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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anile8

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ur a fuking retard AC. In short age doesn't matter to a certain extent. But if your 17 don't go for a girl that is much older than yourself. But if the girls are 18+ aim to get top of 20 or so
 

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Originally posted by anile8
ur a fuking retard AC. In short age doesn't matter to a certain extent. But if your 17 don't go for a girl that is much older than yourself. But if the girls are 18+ aim to get top of 20 or so
F*ck some people are stupid. He was joking you nuffy.
 

penkitten

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the dance floor sure seems scary when you cant dance. and i can not dance haha.

i have to get all drunk and giddy to get out there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alrihgt well i dont understand how i got rejected so much im a good looking good it hurts guys i dont know what's going on at the mall i always get eyed down but at clubs when it is dark i thinkg it makes me look worse maybe?
 

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Originally posted by sportf190
alrihgt well i dont understand how i got rejected so much im a good looking good it hurts guys i dont know what's going on at the mall i always get eyed down but at clubs when it is dark i thinkg it makes me look worse maybe?
Every girl isnt gonna find you attractive, welcome to reality.
 

dannowillbookem

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its probably because your mindset is sitting around wondering whos eying you. go with a couple buds get drunk and who gives a ****. if they want you they'll come if they dont you had a good time and you dont need them trifflin hoes.
 
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