"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sportf190

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i know lookks are the biggest thing when going up to dance to a girl but does age matter considering im going to clubs with mainly 18+ women and im 17?? could it be i look to young? or is it just im ugly thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ur a fuking retard AC. In short age doesn't matter to a certain extent. But if your 17 don't go for a girl that is much older than yourself. But if the girls are 18+ aim to get top of 20 or so
 

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Originally posted by anile8
ur a fuking retard AC. In short age doesn't matter to a certain extent. But if your 17 don't go for a girl that is much older than yourself. But if the girls are 18+ aim to get top of 20 or so
F*ck some people are stupid. He was joking you nuffy.
 

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the dance floor sure seems scary when you cant dance. and i can not dance haha.

i have to get all drunk and giddy to get out there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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alrihgt well i dont understand how i got rejected so much im a good looking good it hurts guys i dont know what's going on at the mall i always get eyed down but at clubs when it is dark i thinkg it makes me look worse maybe?
 

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Originally posted by sportf190
alrihgt well i dont understand how i got rejected so much im a good looking good it hurts guys i dont know what's going on at the mall i always get eyed down but at clubs when it is dark i thinkg it makes me look worse maybe?
Every girl isnt gonna find you attractive, welcome to reality.
 

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its probably because your mindset is sitting around wondering whos eying you. go with a couple buds get drunk and who gives a ****. if they want you they'll come if they dont you had a good time and you dont need them trifflin hoes.
 
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