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sportf190
Guest
i got a question for the best looking playas out htere.. do u ugys get rejected still when going up to girls to dance... like do even the best looking guys with a decent amount of confidence get rejected thanks...
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
A lot of it is about your confidence. This is shown by your actions. Going up to a girl and trying to grind with her, shows some confidence, but it shows that you do not know what to do and that you are not confident enough to try and do it proeprly.
You need to get with in her vicinity, so that she sees you, and dont just stand there with a beer in yur hand, dance, but look her in the eyes and give her that look which says "i want you, and im going to get you" you cna bridge from this to dancing with her as apose to near her, with in a matter of seconds.
P.S. dont asume that just because she rubbed her arse against you d*ck for the last 35 seconds it means that you can pull her.
Its a lot harder to get from dancing to any type of close then it is to dance with a girl.
You need to get with in her vicinity, so that she sees you, and dont just stand there with a beer in yur hand, dance, but look her in the eyes and give her that look which says "i want you, and im going to get you" you cna bridge from this to dancing with her as apose to near her, with in a matter of seconds.
P.S. dont asume that just because she rubbed her arse against you d*ck for the last 35 seconds it means that you can pull her.
Its a lot harder to get from dancing to any type of close then it is to dance with a girl.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Imagine you're a girl, and you're with your friends.
A sexy guy with a sixpack is bearing a wife-beater, and he has really entrancing eyes. He knows how to move his hips, and you're attracted. YOu want to dance, so you go up to him and dance for liek an hour
Then after that, he has to go because his ugly girlfriend wants to go home and watch "Roseanne". Great experience, until a geeky, gimpy white dude with no moves wants to dance with you. He doesn't make you feel anything except ewww. Your female friends are thinking "if you dance with him, then you're disgusting too". They're not the best of friends, but that guy is really embarassing. Can't he dance with someone who might not be me?
You see where I'm going with this?
If you're average, like most of us, then you need to just walk up to her, and dance. Attitude is everything.
A sexy guy with a sixpack is bearing a wife-beater, and he has really entrancing eyes. He knows how to move his hips, and you're attracted. YOu want to dance, so you go up to him and dance for liek an hour
Then after that, he has to go because his ugly girlfriend wants to go home and watch "Roseanne". Great experience, until a geeky, gimpy white dude with no moves wants to dance with you. He doesn't make you feel anything except ewww. Your female friends are thinking "if you dance with him, then you're disgusting too". They're not the best of friends, but that guy is really embarassing. Can't he dance with someone who might not be me?
You see where I'm going with this?
If you're average, like most of us, then you need to just walk up to her, and dance. Attitude is everything.
The thing is you have the have "value" to her before you she will dance with you.
Value can be obtained by a number of ways. Social Proof being the biggest and easiest one.
If she sees you dancing with a lot of other girls you gain value.
If she sees you dancing with her friends you gain value. etc
Value can be obtained by a number of ways. Social Proof being the biggest and easiest one.
If she sees you dancing with a lot of other girls you gain value.
If she sees you dancing with her friends you gain value. etc
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sportf190
Guest
yes it is really hard to get further then dancing i agree... its just i go clubbing every weekend and my friend has no problem making out with girls and getting numbers, and i have some trouble and dont know if he walks really confident or shows more confidence then me, but i mean girls dance with guys and there looking for about 75% looks and 25% confidence i think. thanks guys any other information on dancing with girls is much appreciated. For some reason i get eyed down a good amount of girls but maybe i look unconfident?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
When dancing, you HAVE to be goodlooking to get chicks. Confidence is needed, but if you're worse than a 7/10, you won't get beautiful chicks to dance with you, period.
However, goodlooking doesn't necessarily mean "with a nice face" in this case: if you're 6'2, athletic, ripped, tanned, with awesome clothes, girls won't even look at your face.
However, goodlooking doesn't necessarily mean "with a nice face" in this case: if you're 6'2, athletic, ripped, tanned, with awesome clothes, girls won't even look at your face.
this is it boys....if your anyway near half goodlooking this should help you!!any girl will dance with you!period!the secret is make them enjoy it!if you can pull of a smile, give good eye contact and make her laugh while dancing, you'll be able to pull her!after a a few minutes dancing and the both of you are having a good time you can them show that you are a man by taking her hand, pulling her towards you and closing in! hope thats helped
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sportf190
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yeahh def. man thanks alot my next problem now lol is about numbers.. this is the 3rd girl this has happened to.. i get the number but for some reason i can never get them to hang out andd ill give 2 examples... met this girl then walked away her friend said she wants to talk to me more so got her number called her a couple times she never called me so i dont wanan look desperate u know? so i gave up on her.. next girl i waitor at friendly's and i told this girl to hook me up with her friend.. and she said the girl thought i was cute i called the next night no pickup and i did not leeave a message.. stupid of me? but anyways should i call back the number i few days later?? i cant seem to get any of the girls to hang out after getting the numbersS???