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sportf190
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i got a question for the best looking playas out htere.. do u ugys get rejected still when going up to girls to dance... like do even the best looking guys with a decent amount of confidence get rejected thanks...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
A lot of it is about your confidence. This is shown by your actions. Going up to a girl and trying to grind with her, shows some confidence, but it shows that you do not know what to do and that you are not confident enough to try and do it proeprly.
You need to get with in her vicinity, so that she sees you, and dont just stand there with a beer in yur hand, dance, but look her in the eyes and give her that look which says "i want you, and im going to get you" you cna bridge from this to dancing with her as apose to near her, with in a matter of seconds.
P.S. dont asume that just because she rubbed her arse against you d*ck for the last 35 seconds it means that you can pull her.
Its a lot harder to get from dancing to any type of close then it is to dance with a girl.
You need to get with in her vicinity, so that she sees you, and dont just stand there with a beer in yur hand, dance, but look her in the eyes and give her that look which says "i want you, and im going to get you" you cna bridge from this to dancing with her as apose to near her, with in a matter of seconds.
P.S. dont asume that just because she rubbed her arse against you d*ck for the last 35 seconds it means that you can pull her.
Its a lot harder to get from dancing to any type of close then it is to dance with a girl.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Imagine you're a girl, and you're with your friends.
A sexy guy with a sixpack is bearing a wife-beater, and he has really entrancing eyes. He knows how to move his hips, and you're attracted. YOu want to dance, so you go up to him and dance for liek an hour
Then after that, he has to go because his ugly girlfriend wants to go home and watch "Roseanne". Great experience, until a geeky, gimpy white dude with no moves wants to dance with you. He doesn't make you feel anything except ewww. Your female friends are thinking "if you dance with him, then you're disgusting too". They're not the best of friends, but that guy is really embarassing. Can't he dance with someone who might not be me?
You see where I'm going with this?
If you're average, like most of us, then you need to just walk up to her, and dance. Attitude is everything.
A sexy guy with a sixpack is bearing a wife-beater, and he has really entrancing eyes. He knows how to move his hips, and you're attracted. YOu want to dance, so you go up to him and dance for liek an hour
Then after that, he has to go because his ugly girlfriend wants to go home and watch "Roseanne". Great experience, until a geeky, gimpy white dude with no moves wants to dance with you. He doesn't make you feel anything except ewww. Your female friends are thinking "if you dance with him, then you're disgusting too". They're not the best of friends, but that guy is really embarassing. Can't he dance with someone who might not be me?
You see where I'm going with this?
If you're average, like most of us, then you need to just walk up to her, and dance. Attitude is everything.
The thing is you have the have "value" to her before you she will dance with you.
Value can be obtained by a number of ways. Social Proof being the biggest and easiest one.
If she sees you dancing with a lot of other girls you gain value.
If she sees you dancing with her friends you gain value. etc
Value can be obtained by a number of ways. Social Proof being the biggest and easiest one.
If she sees you dancing with a lot of other girls you gain value.
If she sees you dancing with her friends you gain value. etc
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sportf190
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yes it is really hard to get further then dancing i agree... its just i go clubbing every weekend and my friend has no problem making out with girls and getting numbers, and i have some trouble and dont know if he walks really confident or shows more confidence then me, but i mean girls dance with guys and there looking for about 75% looks and 25% confidence i think. thanks guys any other information on dancing with girls is much appreciated. For some reason i get eyed down a good amount of girls but maybe i look unconfident?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
When dancing, you HAVE to be goodlooking to get chicks. Confidence is needed, but if you're worse than a 7/10, you won't get beautiful chicks to dance with you, period.
However, goodlooking doesn't necessarily mean "with a nice face" in this case: if you're 6'2, athletic, ripped, tanned, with awesome clothes, girls won't even look at your face.
However, goodlooking doesn't necessarily mean "with a nice face" in this case: if you're 6'2, athletic, ripped, tanned, with awesome clothes, girls won't even look at your face.
this is it boys....if your anyway near half goodlooking this should help you!!any girl will dance with you!period!the secret is make them enjoy it!if you can pull of a smile, give good eye contact and make her laugh while dancing, you'll be able to pull her!after a a few minutes dancing and the both of you are having a good time you can them show that you are a man by taking her hand, pulling her towards you and closing in! hope thats helped
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sportf190
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yeahh def. man thanks alot my next problem now lol is about numbers.. this is the 3rd girl this has happened to.. i get the number but for some reason i can never get them to hang out andd ill give 2 examples... met this girl then walked away her friend said she wants to talk to me more so got her number called her a couple times she never called me so i dont wanan look desperate u know? so i gave up on her.. next girl i waitor at friendly's and i told this girl to hook me up with her friend.. and she said the girl thought i was cute i called the next night no pickup and i did not leeave a message.. stupid of me? but anyways should i call back the number i few days later?? i cant seem to get any of the girls to hang out after getting the numbersS???